I've been told I'm intimidating, so many times in fact I was beginning to think that was my real name. I've been told I'm overconfident. Really, is there such a thing as too much confidence? I've been described as a strong woman. What's wrong with being strong? I had breakfast with a close friend this past weekend, she was telling me her brother's impression of me, (we had just met recently), she just laughed and told him "that's faerie, you always know where you stand with her." . Shy and retiring I'm not. Nope, I'm not submissive. Not me.
Well, maybe, let me just take a look at it:
My Husband takes care of all the finances, I get an allowance and I ask before I buy anything.
I rarely ever go anywhere without my husband, he always drives when we do go out. He decides when and where we go when we go out. When we are out he decides when we come home. He says, "you about ready?" That's my cue to say my goodbyes.
The only say I've had in any of the cars I've driven for the last 25 years has been the color. He has picked out every single one of them.
I do the housework and the cooking and the laundry. I've often teased him about having a laundry faerie, cause as far as he is concerned his clothes magically appear clean and folded in his drawers. My mother has asked my why I "wait on my husband hand and foot?"
He's a picky eater, he grocery shops with me and picks out what he wants to eat.
My schedule definitely revolves around his.
I've never denied him my body.
Hmmm, can I be intimidating and confident and strong and submissive all at the same time?
Yeah I guess I can, cause once I really stopped and looked at it, I'm submissive, but only to him.
I wonder if he knows he's the HOH?