Saturday, July 14, 2012

Musicman's Paddle

Thursday we had a lazy day, beginning with a blowjob for Musicman when he woke up. It doesn't have to be his birthday for me to want to give him a BJ first thing in the morning, I find it a delightful way to start the day. Since he never stops me, I'm assuming he likes it too.  There was an after breakfast spanking and sex and then Musicman took a nap. The man requires a lot more sleep then I do and I have no problems with him napping when he gets the opportunity.

We had talked off and on over the course of the day about the birthday spanking, but he was tired and it didn't happen. Wish I could say I was good with that, but judging by my mood yesterday, I wasn't. I tried not to be cranky and nit picky, but I was failing pretty miserably.

We had a busy day of errands and shopping. It was hot and humid and we encountered idiots everywhere we went. That didn't help either one of our moods. By mid afternoon we had completed everything we needed to accomplish and decided to just relax and hangout in the pool and cool off.

After swimming I decided to shower and primp and pamper myself. That always helps me feel better. I bought a new dress while were shopping. It looks like this, only in black. It is really a bathing suit cover up, but I would wear it out with a pretty slip under it. Since I wasn't planning on going out, I wore it alone. Musicman approved.



While I was showering he was out in the garage working on something. I soon found out what that something was. I was lounging on the bed watching some TV when he came in with his project. He made a paddle. It is 3/4" thick, 12" long excluding the handle and 3 1/2 " wide. I don't know what kind of wood it is, but it is very light in color.

He said I could finish it anyway I wanted. He asked if I wanted holes in it. Hmmm...not sure, let's give it a try first and then I will decide. He told me he made it big enough to cover both my cheeks at once. Oh, yes, it does indeed cover both cheeks at once.

So, we gave it a try. I was already lying on the bed and if he blinked he missed how fast I turned over onto my stomach. He told me to count and then, Whack. He doesn't often make me count, though I have found the few times he has that it really adds to the experience for me.

I have also realized that it takes me a couple swats to get started counting. I think that is because it takes me a few minutes to get focused enough. If I don't have to count I can just fly away on the endorphin rush right from the beginning. When I do have to count it takes me a moment to harness those endorphins and get my brain to work.

He probably should have just kept swatting me and telling me to count until I did. Instead he helped me count until I could get it together and do it myself. It took me until number seven to get it together enough to start counting.

Sometimes he went slow and I had plenty of time to absorb the pain and the bloom of pleasure, and then get the next number out. Sometimes he went fast and I was literally panting the numbers out. He used it to massage my legs with little chops from the edge of the paddle all up and down my legs. I love when he does that, it is so relaxing. As soon as I get all nice and relaxed, WHAP, a hard one delivered right to the butt. That makes me jump.

He turned 48 and when I got to number 40 he picked up not only the speed, but the intensity. The last 8 were fast and furious. Then he stopped and rubbed and whispered in my ear checking to see if I was okay. Oh yeah, I was way okay. So he continued spanking me. He covered my butt and my thighs quite nicely. I didn't continue counting past 48, but I'm pretty sure he added a couple decades to his age.

Many orgasms later I decided I quite like his paddle and told him I wanted to negotiate for twice weekly sessions with it. We are still discussing whether or not to put holes in it. I think I would like to try holes, but I also want to cover one side with the leather I have. I already have brass tacks that should look pretty snazzy down the side of the paddle.  He says there is no reason to do holes if I am going to put leather on one side.

I see his point, but I still think I might want the holes. So, what's your opinion, holes, or no holes?

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  1. I have no opinion on the holes, but I actually have always wanted to know what the difference was - so I will look forward to others weighing in.

    As for the rest, this line - "if he blinked he missed how fast I turned over onto my stomach." just made me laugh so hard. Could I be your sister? Or a cousin or something?

    I mean, how do you explain to people that you just get there and lay down for it... they might think we are under some massive mind control, but we aren't. We just do it. I love that about you. I love that about me.

    Happy Birthday to Musicman.

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    1. With holes there is less air resistance so swing is quicker, the difference is noticiable i have found when you use one for a couple of whacks and then switch to the other.

      tori x

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    2. I think you could be a "Sista from anotha Mista." LOL.

      As for explaining, I don't explain anything to anyone. This is me, take me the way I am, or not at all. Either is fine with me :D

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  2. Happy birthday to Musicman.

    Im not a huge fan of the paddle to be honest so would rather not have it with or without holes lol, however its not like i get much choice so i if i had to choose i would choose without because what i do like is having a bruised bum and i find i bruise easier on the ones without holes.

    How do you manage to keep still? i cant i squirm like mad and constantly have to be told to stay in place and inevitably end up having to be restrained..which i prefer though.

    tori x

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    1. Thanks for the input above, Musicman and I are still discussing, but based on your observation, he doesn't need the holes. His swing is just fine, lol.

      And yes, I know, I'm one of those rare birds that likes the sting of wood :D

      Still? I'm supposed to keep still? Heeheeheee, thanks for telling me.

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  3. Ooh, I don't have enough experience to comment about paddles or holes, but I absolutely love reading about your experiences... :)

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    1. Thanks, still havent' decided about the holes yet.

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  4. I agree with you and Kitty. Mention spanking and I'm there. Can't give you any advice about holes or no holes. The only wooden instruments we've used are those large paddle size salad servers and he broke both of them on my ass.

    Happy you got your birthday spanking and that you are enjoying the week"END".

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    1. Maybe I should send you my spoon, I think the paddle has replaced it as my favorite instrument, lol.

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  5. Just for a moment I feared you were not going to get your birthday spanking. Should have known better. He made you a birthday present and gave the birthday spanking + something extra. OK with me!

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    1. Yep, ya shoulda known, lol. It was ok with me too, very, very ok!!!!

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  6. Happy Birthday to your man! Sounds like he got quite the present!

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    1. Not sure who actually got the present, but we both had a great time :)

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  7. None of our paddles have holes, and I don't think we miss them. While they probably do decrease the air resistance, they also offer more places to get pinched. I think they'd be ok if the edges of the holes were smoothed. There's always a psychological part of it too; if you think you want them you'd probably like them. We have a leather paddle with metal studs on it, which is quite effective. Even more effective is our Mr. Studley, which we got from Cane-iac.

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    1. I don't believe he needs anything to help make it easier, lol. I also don't want anything that is going to pinch, ouch, in a not good way :D

      Might have to check out Mr. Studley, he sounds intriguing

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  8. Your gift sounds lovely, holes or not. And even better than the paddle is the fact that he took the time to make it. Doesn't get much better than that does it? Today is Nick's birthday - we'll celebrate soon, but I have to say if he adds on a couple of decades I'm going to be standing for a while!

    Hugs and happy birthday to Musicman.

    PK

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    1. Happy Birthday to Nick too!!!!

      The paddle is quickly becoming my favorite implement and I'm sure it has something to do with the fact that he made it :)

      Maybe after a certain age we need to start subtracting years instead of adding them? Not sure what age that would be, but it might be worth considering, lol.

      I hope you guys had a wonderful celebration :)

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  9. I have very little experience as well, but I like the idea of you decorating it with leather and studs. The holes would make it harder to do that.
    Glad you had a good time!

    Minelle

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    1. Isn't it great that the things we don't know we can ask about and someone is bound to share their experiences? I so appreciate that, cause I'm not so experienced with some things either, lol.

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  10. I'm a big fan of holes . . . wait, that's not what you meant. ;-) The leather and tacks sounds lovely to me.

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    1. LOL, that isn't what I meant, but I did think something much like it :) Welcome and thanks for joining the conversation.

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  11. We currently only have a ping pong paddel and wooden spoon- so I too can offer no opinion on holes- but it does look like it would hurt more. I say go with leather. Always give you a reason to have another.

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    1. Aaaah, I like the way you think. One can never have too many spanking implements, can they?

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  12. Well I can vote...no holes. But I have to add I am not a big fan of wood to begin with. Happy Birthday to your guy,,,he is a keeper!
    abby

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    1. Thanks abby, yeah I guess I gonna have to keep him, lol.

      I have noticed that most people don't seem to like wood, whereas, I love it. Different strokes for different folks, wouldn't ya say? LOL.

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  13. Happy birthday to Musicman - how awesome that he made a paddle, and used it on you!

    I'd go for no holes if I was you. :)

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    1. I thought it was pretty awesome too :) I'm thinking possibly one with holes and one without. I'm such a glutton for punishment, lol :D

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  14. Happy Birthday Musicman. All my best wishes.
    I liked the dress; it looks comfortable and summery.
    Faerie, you have to go to Etsy and pull up Mike Schramer. He has a fairy house that costs $75,000.00. Can you believe it? The piece is titled "Fairy House for Twenty-one Fairies." Let me know what you think.

    Kiki

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    1. Thanks Kiki, the dress is super comfy, I'm gonna love having it in my wardrobe :D

      That fairy house is totally awesome, wish I lived close to where it is gonna be on exhibit, I would love to see it in person. Sadly I don't so the pics will have to do. Honestly, as much as I like it, even if I had that kind of money, I probably wouldn't buy it. It seems very self indulgent. I'm not so good with self indulgence, that's why I still don't own the doll house I've always wanted :)

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  15. It depends on the size of the holes. Anything big enough to push a thumb through should give a noticeable texture difference when you're spanked with it, even with the leather wrap on the other side. I know you're particular about textures.

    Think also about this; if he does put holes in them, and you don't like them, how easily could he fill them back in? Wood putty can only do so much, even when mixed with sawdust for better control.

    Either way, I'm glad you both enjoyed breaking in the new paddle. Sounds like he made your both a present. Happy Birthday to him indeed!

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    Mr. AP

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    1. We have tons of wood so it would just be a matter of making another one. Which I think we might have to do, one with holes, one without. Thanks for telling me about the size of the holes required, I wondered about that too :)

      It was ridiculous how long it took me to decide what piece of leather and what side to use. I could have just sat and stroked it all day long trying to decide, lol.

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    2. Just sitting and stroking all day, huh? Happy Birthday to Musicman indeed! ;-)

      Stay SINful
      Mr. AP

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    3. I thought you'd catch that :)

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  16. I would vote for no holes, but I am a wimp. :)

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    1. Nothing wrong with being a wimp, in fact, in some instances it is probably a good thing :D

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  17. Definitely both. Holes and leather. Only you would ask this :)

    Happy Birthday Musicman.

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    1. I might be the only one who would ask, but I'm willing to bet I'm not the only one who wants to know :)

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  18. Ooh...I love your dress!

    I hate paddles so I say no holes, but I realize you don't feel the same way about them. I have heard that holes will lead to bruising more quickly, but don't know how much so.

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    1. I definitely don't want something that is going to cause bruising, Musicman doesn't like that.

      I'm lovin' the dress too. It is super comfy, and it's long enough that it brushes the tops of my feet. At 5' 10" I rarely find that :D

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  19. Faerie: How thoughtful of Musicman to make the paddle he spanked you with. So much more personal than just buying one. You must love that he is really getting into the lifestyle. Sounds like you two are beginning a wonderful journey of exploring all the different facets of this lifestyle and finding out what works for you both. Good luck.

    FD

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    1. I was thrilled when he gave me the paddle. Is that odd? LOL.

      I'm not sure we are always on the same page with things, but we are at least in the same book :D Turns out, that makes a huge difference in how smoothly things go. Heeheeheee, makes me giggle a bit too :D

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  20. He made you a paddle...how SWEET! I've never tried holes, so out of curiosity, I vote holes! You'll have to let us know what you decide.

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    1. Oh! Sure! Sacrifice my butt for the sake of curiosity!

      LOL, okay, you twisted my arm, I'll do it ;-D

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  21. Lovely that he made a paddle. Holey paddle, that's what I want.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. Ya know, now that I have considered it, at some point, I'm gonna want one too :)

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  22. Oh, I love the idea of making a paddle from scratch. Would you consider posting a picture of the one Musicman made? I've thought about making one as well and would love to get some ideas...

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    1. I would love to post a pic, I'd love to post one of the flogger that I made too. Unfortunately, right now I don't have a camera. We are looking at them and maybe soon I will able to post pics.

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  23. Okay, I'll keep an eye out for when you share them! Thanks, faerie!

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