Monday, July 16, 2012

End of an Interlude

Ah, the interlude is over, Musicman has gone back to work. Maybe now he will get some rest, lol. We were lying in bed last night, completely worn out and satisfied, when I asked him what he was going to tell his co-workers when they ask him what he did with his time off.

It seems a bit inappropriate for him to say that he made a paddle for his wife. Which makes it even more inappropriate for him to say he used it multiple times on her.  He could tell them how I made a temporary suede leather cover for the paddle that we test drove Saturday night. It's divine.

He could tell them how I can't resist playing with our shiny new toys and became a bit aggressive with the bullet vibe and my hands and mouth on his beautiful cock after the spanking. Or how that was just one of many times this weekend I had him in my mouth. Proof positive the man never gets tired of getting blowjobs. Heeheehee.

He could tell them how he turned the tables on me and tortured me with that bullet vibe until I was literally whimpering for more. He just chuckled, kinda fiendishly and took his time while he took my breathe away, repeatedly.

He could tell them how our plans for Sunday Morning were rained out. But it might not be such a good idea to share that instead, he woke me with roaming hands and soon had me whimpering again with pleasure, and that was before the flogger came into play.

He could tell them how it took 73 brass tacks for me to permanently fasten the leather on the paddle. I just covered one side, the other we left the way it was. The leather side has a bit more of a thud than the wood, which has a delicious sting to it. The anticipation between swats is just as powerful of a turn on for me as the actual swat. Knowing that all he has to do is switch from side to side to change the sensation is quite enticing to me. Knowing how well he reads me, I anticipate he will use it very effectively to keep me guessing.

We opted not to put holes in this one, he assures me has plenty of wood to make another one. So, at some point we will have a paddle with holes. Now, I just need to decide on the pattern for the holes, maybe a word.

I don't know what he will tell them, but I know it won't be any of the things I mentioned above. Musicman is never inappropriate, unlike me. He did comment to me that he is having more sex then when he was 28, or 38 for that matter. He assured me that was just an observation, not a complaint. That's always nice to know, especially since I'm the one he is having the sex with, just as it was when he was 28 and 38.

Today I have been cleaning the aftermath of the 4 days of play. Picking up clothing scattered randomly, in our haste to get naked. Towels galore, utilized for the many post coital cleanups, need laundered.  Sheets with the corners that popped free in the vigorous moments of play, removed and replaced with fresh. Don'tcha just love the challenge of clean sheets? Washing and putting away the vibes and paddles and floggers scattered around the area. We keep everything on the headboard of the bed, it's a mirrored bookcase headboard. Many more implements or toys and I am going to have to think of something else. It's getting crowded up there.

While I've been cleaning, various thoughts about the weekend have floated through my mind. Looking back at the things we tried that worked really well and the things that didn't. I asked Musicman yesterday if there was anything he hadn't done this weekend that he wanted too? There was one thing, yeah, that thing I can't name yet. It didn't happen, but we are making progress with it. We talked just a bit about why it didn't happen, and where we go from here, to get there.

I have realized we both have a few goals, things we would like to see happen on the next step of our journey. They are the same goals, but, as usual, we aren't approaching them the same way. This doesn't surprise me a bit, as we never do approach solving issues the same way. The discussions we had about this have given me the seeds of some answers, but they aren't fully bloomed yet. Once they are, I will propose them to Musicman and see what he thinks.

Unfortunately, it may be a bit before I get the chance to let them bloom as I start my new job tomorrow. I will be working full time for the next two weeks at least, so that will cut into my kinky thinking time. That's okay though, I am looking forward to starting this job and think in the long run, focusing on that for a bit will be a big benefit. Once I get through the orientation/training, which I don't anticipate will be more then two weeks, I will be able to settle in to a nice part time schedule.

Then, let the blooming begin. 

So, I may not be around as much the next few weeks, but if I'm not don't worry, I will be back soon and ready to play again.



40 comments:

  1. Wow! What a birthday weekend! He must be having a hard time fitting through door ways today....

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    1. LOL, I think he earned that right :D

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  2. You know what, I wish it was more acceptable to tell people the awesome ways you actually spend your time.

    We've actually gone on vacation expressly to have sex, and had to fit some "sight-seeing" in just to have something to tell people about!

    I think perhaps if it was more the norm to talk about your sex life, that more people would have better sex. Really.

    Glad you guys had such an awesome time!

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    1. It would make things much easier if I could be honest and they wouldn't be shocked. I agree, if more people where able to talk about sex, it would be better for everyone.

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  3. OMG Faerie. Are you sure the house is still standing?
    I don't think Musicman will tell anything at work. Men don't talk about things outside work. If they even ask, he will just mutter something like: "oh you know, nothing special, just the usual". Hah, just the usual!
    On the other hand it is a pity that he cannot make all other men (and women) jealous by just telling what happened.
    Desperately needing a picture of that magic paddle.

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    1. I'm sure he will say something exactly like that, lol. That's okay, we know what really happened :)

      I am working on getting a camera so I can post pics. Though I think the magic isn't in the paddle, it is in the hands of the person wielding it.

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  4. What a great birthday celebration...I always say birthdays should be celebrated for at least 3 days! You and your man did that in style! Good luck with the orientation.
    abby

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    1. Thanks abby, I'm tired, but happy, this job is going to be a good fit for me :)

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  5. Sounds like a great time, good for you guys!

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    1. Thanks Ponyboy, we enjoyed ourselves immensely.

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  6. What a wonderful weekend! I can't think how it could have been any better. The paddle sounds just great, even though wood is not my favorite. I hope you love your new job, but I hope you have plenty of time for weekends such as this. Don't me gone too long, we'll miss you!

    Hugs,
    PK

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    1. It could have never ended, but then we might sex ourselves to death, lol. What a way to go ;-D

      The job is gonna be okay, and I won't be gone long. I still like it here better then there.

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  7. Wonderful weekend. Who needs to go away when you can have a weekend like that at home. It's a wonder either of you have the strength to function IRL today. LOL

    Can't wait for the next update. Good luck tomorrow and have great success in your new endeavor.

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    1. We weren't functioning at 100% that's for sure. The first day at the job went very well.

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  8. Glad you had a great weekend, Faerie! Good luck on your new job!

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    1. Thanks SNP, I hope your Musicman's homecoming was memorable :)

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  9. Sounds like you made use of every minute together!!
    Enjoy the new job.

    Minelle

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    1. We did, thanks Minelle. The first day at the job went well.

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  10. He could tell them all of that, but unless he has a VERY close friend and confidante at work I'm sure he won't do much more than smile and say he was allowed to rest and relax.

    Best of luck with the new job. I'm happy for you.

    Regarding that thing that hasn't happened yet, if you need someone to bounce ideas or thoughts off of, kick me an email. I'll help as best I'm able.

    Stay SINful
    Mr. AP

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    1. I don't think he would share any of that with anyone other then me, lol.

      The first day at the job went well, thanks :)

      I'll keep that offer in mind.

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  11. Sounds like there are LOTS of things Musicman could tell his coworkers ;) I have a similar problem, whenever I go away on weekends, people always want to know what Cael and I did, and what am I supposed to say???

    Oh, and, I'm happy to see you've volunteered to take one for the team and be the guinea pig for the paddle with holes. Hehe.

    Best of luck with your new job, I will be thinking of you and hoping that it's going really well. *hugs!!!*

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    1. Don't say anything other then you went to see your boyfriend, then just smile. That will get them thinking, lol.

      Thanks for the well wishes, it went very well.

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  12. what a great weekend-- way to treat your birthday boy (and him you!) Good luck with the new job.

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    1. I did say I like to make his birthdays special, guess I accomplished that, lol.

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  13. Musicman could always tell his coworkers that he enjoyed doing some woodworking and keeping physically fit. ;)

    Glad you had so much fun!

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    1. Oh, great idea, wish I had thought of that :)

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  14. Good times, i always chuckle if people should ask what we have been up to at the weekend and its been a weekend of play usually its a "not much"!

    Good luck on starting the new job, hope it all goes well.

    x

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    1. Once you take all the kinky stuff out it sounds like a really boring time. Oh well, thay can think we are boring if they want. We know the truth.

      The job went well, thanks :)

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  15. faerie: It is interesting in our society that we don't talk about sex even with close friends. I did have one friend who talked about his dating exploits but stopped once he met the girl who became his wife except to say the first time they did it she wasn't shaved, but the next time she was. Which is why it's so good to be able to blog about the topic and share our experiences.

    Anyway, faerie, so nice that you and Musicman had such a wonderful weekend and hope that you work schedules don't stop you both from continuing your journey in the lifestyle.

    FD

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    1. I think the world would be a much happier place if people felt free to talk about this stuff openly. Think of all the misinformation floating around that would stop.

      Work may slow us down a bit, but it won't stop us.

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  16. it sounds like you two had a lovely time. if the amt of cleanup you're facing is any indication...

    and it's so wonderful how you recognise that you approach things differently and are ready to discuss all this until you both reach the same place... it's inspiring to hear. thank you for sharing.

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    1. We did have a lovely time, definitely worth the time spent cleaning up ;-D

      We realized very early on that we see things differently and communicate differently. It is something we worked hard at overcoming and adjusting too. I think that is abig reason we have been togt=ether so long and been happy.

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  17. I'm glad the two of you enjoyed some wonderful quality time together. I wonder what he will tell his coworkers should they ask. lol Congrats on your new job. I hope it goes well!

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    1. He will probably tell them we didn't do much, just hung out around the house, lol. The job went well yesterday.

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  18. Well, well, well, you've been a busy little faerie, haven't you? That was so great of Musicman reassuring you that he wasn't complaining about too much sex. You know how most men are if they get too much; bitch and whine. Lol.
    How was your first day at work?

    Kiki

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    1. We like to make the most of our time together, I think we accomplished that ;D

      I'm glad he assured me too, wouldn't want to tire him out, heeheehee.

      The first day at work went well, this is going to be a good fit for me, the ladies I'll be working with are interesting too.

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    1. Thanks Mrs. SB, it went really well yesterday.

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