Thursday, May 31, 2012

Am I the BJ Lady?

Just got home from work and my feet are killing me. I might be tempted to give up spanking forever for a nice foot rub. Okay, not forever, but a foot rub would be heavenly right about now. Of course a nice spanking would make me forget how much my feet hurt, so I guess maybe I won't give them up. As if I was ever really considering that!

I was looking at the Google terms used to find my blog. There has been a huge influx of people looking for me by name. That's very flattering. I never imagined anyone would really be interested in the drivel that spills so copiously from my head, but apparently people do.  Thanks people.

The most common term used to find me has been blow jobs. Now someone is Googling, "loves to give blow jobs" blogspot. I never realized how may ways to look up blow jobs on the internet there were. I never bothered to look since I already love them so much. I get a lot of people searching for blowjob bruises too. Why would someone want to cause bruises by giving a blow job? Just wondering!  Hmmm...maybe I should change the name of my blog. Just kidding, I wouldn't change the name of my blog now.  Though I could call it The Blow Job Lady.

I also pretty regularly get people Googling "sex tease." I could take this offensively, I'm not a tease. Well, I might be a tease. Teasing is fun, I freely admit that. I also admit I like to tease my hubby. Why else would I walk around the house in tiny little Tinkerbell shorts? Or, short skirts and no undies? There is a reason why Musicman likes to follow me up the stairs instead of leading the way, the view is better.

Since I never say no to any advances or overtures though, I don't think I qualify as a tease.  Hopefully they are looking to find out how to be a tease. Or, maybe they are trying to figure out how to spot a tease. I don't really know. Maybe I should do a post on being prepared to follow through if you are going to tease. That would be the responsible thing to do I guess. No one finds me by Googling  "responsible" though so I am not gonna worry too much about it.

Another very common term that brings people to my blog is "selfish submission" or any combination of those two words. I did do a post very early on where I said I felt my submission was selfish. This is not a reflection on anyone else or what submission looks like to them. Nope, it's all about me. This is my blog after all. It's probably the most selfish thing I have ever done for myself too.

Taking the time everyday or every other day out of my schedule to write does seem selfish. But, I'm not a very selfish person in general, so I think I can slide by on this one thing. The benefits to me and to our relationship far outweigh any selfishness on my part anyway. I have learned so much about myself and dealt with some tough issues that have haunted me for years by writing here. I am in a really good place after going through a couple really bad years. That can't be selfish.

Sharing totally unrelated fairy pics with every post might be selfish. Too bad, I like fairies and I'm gonna share the pics, cause I can. What would you expect from a blogger named faerie, who entitled her blog, faerie learns to fly?

Selfish or not, tease or not, blowjob lover or not. I love blogging. I love my readers and all the wonderfully insightful and delightful comments they leave. I love the friends and the connections I've made with like minded people.

I won't be changing the name of the blog, I won't be giving up spanking anytime soon. I may have to work a little harder to find the time and an appropriate topic to write about, but, I won't be giving up my selfish habit of blogging anytime soon.


I'm no angel after all!!!!





41 comments:

  1. Lol. Well I don't think being a tease with you husband is wrong, so I wouldn't worry about it. And the blog job lady does sound interesting, but I don't know, I love giving DH bjs, I just don't like to write about it a lot. Seems so personal, which is not saying nobody should write about it, because I love to read about it. okay, done rambling.

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    1. Ramble any time you want, I always love the comments. Sometimes I write about very personal posts, sometimes I don't. Just depends on my mood and what's on my mind :)

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  2. Oh, teasing is fantastic and so are blow jobs. So is never saying no. Mm.

    I love you too, faerie.

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    1. We have so much in common, we could have been separated at birth, lol. It only took me 47 years to find women like myself, better late then never :)

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  3. OMG. I just wrote a post about subs loving blowjobs and if there's a correlation. Hop over to comment will you? I really do wonder if naturally inclined subs are all cock worshippers... cos my own experience and what I'm reading, We're all cock addicts! LOL any views?

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    1. I knew I loved cocks and giving BJ's long before I realized I was a sub. I wonder if the correlation is because we subs so crave over the top masculine men and what is more masculine then cock?

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    2. You might have something there. I can't see a query list on my traffic>search query. It gives me number of queries but not list. stupid webmaster tools. Tsk.

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    3. And yes I knew I loved gvg BJs like 20 yrs ago. I think the sub thing only came about in the last 5.

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  4. Why do you have to choose? Just have the foot rub first.
    After you will be so relaxed and ready for anything!
    Minelle

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    1. Oh, I like the way you think Minelle. Why choose indeed? LOL.

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  5. Ha! Those are some pretty interesting search terms Faerie:) I like the fairy pics and would expect nothing less from a blogger named faerie...I also like your blog so I am glad that you love blogging!

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    1. I had been noticing for awhile that I was becoming the selfish BJ lady according to the search terms, lol. I guess it could be worse, they could be Googling Bitch and finding me :)

      I'm glad you like the fairy pics, I love picking them out for every post, lol.

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  6. It is interesting to see how people find blogs...glad you plan on being around for a while, I would miss you.
    hugs abby

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    1. Thanks abby, I would miss being around :) Who else do I have to talk with this kind of stuff about? LOL, my RL friends don't want to hear it!

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  7. I just found your blog and I LOVE your attitude. I also love faeries so I may be biased. *wink* I look forward to ready your tale and hope to share my stories as well. Have a fantastic night! (SO my two cents - of course you should keep your name!)
    Fondly,
    Addy

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    1. Anyone who loves faeries is a friend in my book, lol. Welcome and I'm so happy to hear you like my blog, I will have to find the time to check your's out :)

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    2. Thanks so much! Hope that weekend is treating you well. My goal today is to avoid a punishment spanking...so far so good. ;)

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  8. Lol blowjob lady! That's too funny. Don't you love blog stats?? I've had some pretty funny ones myself! My favorite: "masturbate with vanilla extract." Gotta love Google! I hope you get your foot-rub, you deserve it after your hard work. And I like your fairy pictures, I don't find it selfish at all! :)

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    1. Made me laugh too when it started becoming a regular search term. It is by far my most used one. Masturbate with vanilla extract? Really, what some people come up with!! Maybe they are the same people getting me by Googling blowjob bruises, lol.

      I'm so glad you like the fairy pics, I have so much fun finding them :)

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  9. There has been an increase in my name as well - I wonder.

    I love your whole section on tease - especially becuase it sounds like you know that you have it going on for musicman. That is awesome. :)

    We love you too!

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    1. Kinda flattering to think people know me and are looking for me, at least for me it's flattering :)

      Teasing is an art in and of itself, but most people take being called a tease negatively. I suppose if you were just a tease with no followthrough it would be bad. That's not me. Yeah, I know how to entice my man. That's a good thing :)

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  10. I gave up and took my blog off the search list. There were too many innocent words bring people to my blog, like nature and serenity. But my favorite one was "how to be a dirty little slut in the bedroom." I know I never posted any such thing.

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    1. Never thought about it but, I do suppose vanilla people might be surprised to go looking for nature stuff and find you. Maybe you are teaching them something, lol.

      I never have really figured out what drives the search terms. Is it the title, or the content, or the tags? Just don't know and honestly don't care too much :)

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  11. Great post. You're a lucky, selfish, submissive, talented, bj'ing nonAngel. What's not to love?

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    1. Thanks Emen, not many women would see those terms as a compliment. I'm not many women, lol.

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  12. This of course made me go and check what people use when they find my blog. There is some pretty funny stuff there. Sadly I don't have time to write about it today.

    I like your blog just the way it is!

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    1. Fodder for a future post maybe? They really are funny sometimes, and sometimes they just make me shake my head and wonder, lol.

      Thanks for the nice compliment, I am always surprised that people enjoy my writing, but I'm glad they do :)

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  13. Haha! Yeah the searches through up some funny and strange stuff at times. I've noticed a huge increase in UK viewers, so they are out there!
    Have a good weekend bj lady :)

    Dee x

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    1. Uh! *throw*
      I blame lack of caffeine :)

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    2. LOL Dee, I must be right there with you on the lack of caffeine, cause I totally read it the way you had intended. See what I mean about like minded people?

      Stick with me and I'll turn you into a BJ Lady too :)

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  14. Tried commenting yesterday but blogger wouldn't let me. We are enjoying you and your blog. Who cares how they get there once they do they enjoy.

    I have never looked mine up - perhaps under DRIVEL.

    Have a great weekend.

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    1. Blogger is being a butt again, I have been having trouble with commenting too :(

      I just noticed them on occasion and started tracking how often BJ was used, it was being used everyday, lol. When they started coming up in combination with faerie, ie, "faerie blowjob" and "faerie blow job blog" I found it hysterical :) I'm easily amused sometimes, lol.

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  15. I love the pics my friend so feel free to post them away, lol. Isn't it interesting though what brings people to your blog sometimes lol. Have a good weekend.

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    1. I'm so happy you like the pics, I have tons of fun looking for them.

      I never thought BJ's would be one of mine, but it is the most popular one. Makes me wonder if the people searching are finding what they are looking for when it takes them to my blog?

      You have a wonderful weekend too :)

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  16. I never would have thought of using different terms to find blogs. I came across my first blog by accident; and, it happened to be a dd blog. If I can't remember a blog name, I just go to a blog I read; and, look for it on the blog list.
    I like whimsy; so, I love your name. Have you seen the little doors for elves and faeries that you attach to the bottom of a tree trunk? They are so cute.

    Kiki

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    1. I've never thought to try to google a blog either, much like you I troll the blogrolls on the ones I read :)

      I haven't ever seen the little doors for faeries. Where do you find them?

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    2. Go to Etsy. Type in fairy door. Click on to the ones you like; and, you'll get info on them. You have to see the one that says "Mature Content." The shop name is "Cappysue." When you go to the shop, click on to the pictures to the right for a close up. Tell me what you think after you see it.

      Kiki

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    3. OMG Kiki, I want one of everything, lol. That cappysue lady has quite the sense of humor. Wondering what she is into? Did you see the miniature butt plug set? LOL, it was hilarious, those with a few of her "mooning cavemen" would make an interesting mantle piece decoration :) I checked out the fairy houses too. Now I am rethinking my fascination with miniatures and dollhouses. I've always wanted a dollhouse to decorate cause I just love all the miniature furniture and stuff. I actually have a collection of bird houses and some of them look similar to the faerie houses, lol. Thanks for giving me the info, they are great :)

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    4. No, I didn't see the miniature butt plugs; so, had to go take a look. The disclaimer about not being responsible if someone actually put in had me in hysterics.
      I didn't realize faeries and elves were that naughty.
      Last year, I got hooked on ordering things from Etsy; and, one day I typed in bdsm. I couldn't believe all the things that popped up. Go back, and take a look around some of the shops.

      Kiki

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  17. I didn't find you by googling blowjob, but nice to be internet famous I suppose!

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    1. I don't think I'm exactly what one might consider famous, lol. No matter how you found me it was nice of you stop by and leave a comment :)

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