Saturday, December 29, 2012

Finally...He let me...

... wear my do me boots out of the house.

We had been invited to see Doc's band play last night. We don't go out all that much anymore, but we always enjoy going to see Doc play. I debated all day about what to wear. I really wanted to wear my white jean mini skirt(totally rocks wth the boots), but I didn't think I would get that past Musicman. Plus, there's a foot of snow on the ground and temp's below freezing, kinda makes a mini skirt a bit impractical. Of course, 4" stiletto heels aren't very practical either in that kind of weather, but sometimes it's just too much fun being impractical.

Instead, I chose some jean leggings and a cap sleeve, tunic style sweater. I hurried home after work to get ready. My thought was, if he saw me all dressed and ready to go, I might get away with it. He liked it and I did get to wear them. Walking through the snow in them was a bit of a challenge, but Musicman helped me with that. Once we got inside, they were very easy to walk, or should I say strut in. With boots like those you can't help but strut.

Musicman is a very possesive man, and he see's me as his most valuable possesion. I've know this from the very beginning, though it did take a few years to accept. Over the years friends have tried to talk him into letting me wear certain things(a black bathing suit I owned when we met, comes to mind), but no luck.

He never cared who said what, including me, I was his and he doesn't share. That's what he always says anyway. That hasn't changed, but something has. I think what has changed is the fact that I now acknowledge and even revel in the fact that I am his possesion. If he had said no, that I couldn't wear the boots, I would have taken them off. I have another pair that have a sensible heel and stop below the knee that would have worked with my outfit too.

I'm so happy he didn't say no, the boots were a big hit and the topic of many a conversation throughout the night. Yes, I'm a bit of an attention whore, I admit that. One thing I noticed last night, and the last time we went out to see Doc play, is that we must exude some kind of under current. An undercurrent of our dynamic apparently. Ya see, I'm used to getting stared at, and receiving compliments from other men. Musicman doesn't like that at all, and I don't encourage them.

Men still stare at me, but they no longer compliment me. They compliment him, about me. It's a little weird to be sitting right there and have other men tell Musicman how hot I am, or that they want to do his wife. The shit eating grin that Musicman gets on his face when they say those things is pretty hilarious too.

23 comments:

  1. *Grins* And I thought those boots weren't made for walking *wink-wink*. It's awesome when you can see people 'feel' you....like your own insular secret society :) Glad you had fun!

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    1. I didn't walk in them, I strutted, lol :D It did feel like we had a secret, which, I suppose we do. But it seemed so obvious to me that people noticed "something."

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  2. Glad you finally got to wear your boots out. My Dragon likes to dress me up to get noticed. He even allows the occasional touch. When I am wearing a tight laced corset, men can't keep their hand off. Dragon enjoys it. He says "MINE" with a crooked, sexy grin on his face.

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    1. Musicman is starting to get to that mindset where he enjoys others looking and even commenting to him about me. If they made those comments to me, or tried to touch me, he'd probably lay them out.

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  3. It is nice when we are admired, as long as they don't cross that line...
    I bet those boots were a BIG hit!
    You did have a great time out together,being with each other and good friends sure is special.

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    1. It was a ton of fun and everyone loved the boots :) The problem with people crossing the line, is that the line Musicman draws is extremely tight. It's just been within the last several months that he has tolerated the comments without going ballistic on them.

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  4. So glad you had such a great time:) And loved that you were able to wear your boots and how you said "walk in....or should I say strut in them" because like you said....you cannot help but strut in a pair of hot and sexy boots!! :)

    Belle:)

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    1. Yep, those are definitely strutting boots :) I'm just happy I didn't fall in them, lol.

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  5. Glad this year's visit to see Doc was sooo much more fun.

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    1. Yeah...it definitely was more fun, but then again, we've known Doc since before he was a Doc, so it is normal to interact with him this way.

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  6. I love that you sound so happy. I can just see that grin on Musicman's face.

    Hugs,
    PK

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    1. Thanks PK, things are going well right now, hope it lasts :) That grin is so cute, but rarely ever seen on him.

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    1. We did have fun, but who wouldn't with good music and good friends.

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  8. I'm glad you commented on my blog and your post wraps up nicely what you were referring to. You both sound so happy and that's the most awesome feeling. :)

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    1. It is awesome Addy, I'm glad you took the comment as it was intended. Like I said, I'm not collared physically, but mentally I sure am.

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  9. Yes, I'm a bit of an attention whore, I admit that.

    Ah! That gave me such a big grin. Nothing wrong with that is there?

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    1. I'm glad I could make you grin, and no, nothing wrong with it at all. No sense denying something that is painfully obvious, lol :)

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  10. Another boot loving attention whore here. You must have been very pleased!

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    1. Oh, I was very pleased, cause I really didn't know if he would let me wear them.

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  11. I wanna see these boots!!! I am a shoe-aholic...and just the THOUGHT of these boots, the way you describe them, is making my "gotta buy shoes" gland just work overtime!

    Sounds like you and Musicman had a great time! BD is really possessive, too....and I do love to see that look on his face! I'll bet Musicman had that look on his face all night with you in those boots!!

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    1. Hi CC, if you want to see the boots, go back about 8 posts to the one titled, "Something I've Never Done Before." There are pics of said boots in that post. Yeah...he kinda did have that look most of the night, sure a lot better then having him pissed off at every man that looked my way.

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    2. OH....MY...GOSH!!! I love them! They are awesome! I want! :-D

      Yes, I have to agree, it is so much better for them to take the looks as a compliment than for them to get mad about them.

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