Thursday, February 6, 2014

What are you watching?

I've often heard it said that men are visual creatures. Musicman certainly is and that's something I use to my advantage. Why do ya think I prefer to wear pretty dresses or skirts? Cause they appeal to him more than sweatpants, of course. Though a nice snug pair of jeans will do the trick too.

One of the visual things Musicman enjoys is watching porn. It's something he has always done and something we do together. Way back at the beginning of our relationship, before the dawn of the internet, we used to rent them. I am not nearly as fond of watching porn as he is, but some of it I do enjoy, though I have a lot of stipulations about what I won't watch.

With the advent of D/s in our relationship, I have become quite bored with vanilla porn. It just doesn't do much for me. The problem for me is that most BDSM porn is too graphic for me. If I am cringing while watching then it's not a turn on for me. I've tried watching spanking videos, but there is a whole host of problems with that.

I find watching someone get spanked to be quite boring, especially if the spankee is not reacting at all. If the reaction is too intense, such as crying, it's a turn off for me. The DD type spankings, where the spanker is lecturing, just plain piss me off. It's impossible for me to get turned on when I am plotting how much I would beat the living crap out of the spanker as soon as I was allowed up. In case you didn't know, or haven't guessed, we are not a DD couple. There is no overtones of discipline in spankings for us, unless it's for some kind of infraction during playtime. Then it is a turn on for me.

Due to this inability to find videos that appeal to me, we haven't watched much porn lately. I think most of the ones we have watched have been of the threesome variety. Those haven't always been my cup of tea either, but that is one of Musicman's fantasies. He says he wants to see me with another woman, something I've never been interested in trying. He has been on a campaign to get me to change my mind about that and I admit, his tactics are working, a little. But, it's still not a huge turn on for me.

However, I have continued to try and find some videos that appeal to me and I did have some success. I found one with just the right tone for me. Not to hard, not to soft, no lecturing and amazing sex afterwards, yay. So, me being me, I emailed it to him. Many of you may already know that Musicman never checks his email, so it could sit there literally for years if I didn't tell him. I thought I could avoid that this time, cause he actually had been checking his email regularly waiting for some much needed information to come through. I figured he would check his email looking to see if the information had come through and find my email.

No such luck, what he was waiting on came in the regular snail mail the day I sent my email, so he didn't need to check his email. Drats, now I have to remember to tell him to check his email.

Ummm...honey, you may want to check your email.

15 comments:

  1. I totally agree that all the spanking video we have ordered just plain stink. I just get bored watching him repeatedly smack her ass as she grins and pretends to occasionally cringe and says "wooo…" What's wrong with a little story? A little real spanking? Hell, their getting paid ACT for pity sake. I hope he'll like what you've found and if you ever do come across a good spanking video, let me know.

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    1. Yeah, I know exactly what you mean about the bad acting. There is not really a story line in this vid, but it really did appeal to me. I'll let you know if he ever watches it or we watch it together. If I knew how to add a link in comments I would post it for you.

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  2. If you enjoy it, I would also like to know....maybe you should print up a special movie night ticket....and give it to Musicman...
    hugs abby

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    1. Special movie night tickets sound fun. But, do we have popcorn or candy with it? LOL :)

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  3. I hate watching bad acting in a spanking video clip. For me it is a thrill to imagine a "real" discipline scene. However if it is over the top forget it...I cringe.

    Let us know haow he enjoyed yor choice

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    1. I'll let you know if he ever watches it. Real discipline is still a huge trigger for me, don't know if I will ever get past it. Oh well.

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  4. Hey Faerie...I'm with everyone else...if the porn doesn't have a good storyline and be not too hard, not too soft but just right! Just call me Goldilocks. :)

    Please do let us know if you enjoy your choice.

    Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Goldilocks, that who I felt like when I was writing too :) I have always preferred porn to have a storyline. Years ago I found some really good, though vanilla, porn that had great storylines. Unfortunately, I lost them when my computer crashed a few years back :(

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  5. I think you summed up very clearly all the reasons I don't find porn appealing. In the UK it is unclear if watching BDSM is illegal, so signing up to anything is risky.
    I like Abby's idea of a ticket :)

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    1. I wouldn't risk anything illegal for a bit of porn either. I didn't sign up for anything for this one, I found it on spankingtube.

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  6. I hope this one does it for you both. :-)

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    1. Thanks Terps, it worked for me, now to see if it works for him.

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  7. Have any of you watched the video of the Story of O? Don't know if you'd like it or not. At least there is a story although you might think it is too intense..

    FD

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    1. Hey FD...been years since I've seen the Story of O and it is intense but really don't think it's extreme...and it does have a plausible storyline which so many of the porn flicks don't! Thanks for the reminder!

      Blessings...Cat

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    2. I've never seen the video of Story of O, but I've read the book. I have a feeling that if the video sticks to the book it might be too intense for me.

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