Monday, February 5, 2018

"M"

While life has been a bit of a challenge the last few years, it's not been all gloom and doom.

When I accepted the full time position at work I was fully aware that I would be transferring to a totally different program. It was a program in transition. They added 4 full time staff, myself being one of them. 

One of the best benefits was a double desk.
Yep, I had to share a desk. That's how I met M.
She's 13 years younger than me and about as big around as one of my legs.

I'm  5' 10". She's  5' 2". Beautiful red head and I almost fell off my chair when she said I had beautiful blonde hair. My hair is grey. A little bit of silver and white mixed in.

We clicked immediately. We talked openly about everything. Including sex.  She is divorced from an abusive man and  has 3 teenagers. One is autistic and one has a  serious health issue.

We have similar backgrounds, toxic mom's and abusive alcoholic dad's. Prior to her marriage she had  been in a D/s relationship.

She asked my advice about online dating. I've  been  married longer than the Internet existed. I  couldn't help her in that circumstance. But I did help her with something.

She wanted to replace her sex toys. Now that's a subject I know something about. She took me to my first brick and mortar sex shop.

Wednesday's are ladies day. We went every Wednesday. We became friends with the owner. A lovely , friendly lady who hooked us up.

Musicman is fanatical about checking the bank statement online.  Makes it rather hard to surprise him. But, like Pavlov's dogs, he'd  see the bank transactions and look for the nondescript grey bag. That was a fun summer.






12 comments:

  1. It's always good to make a friend with a similar background and interests. I hope you still keep up with her.

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    1. M is the first woman in real life I have ever shared that side of myself. We do stay in touch and get together when we can.

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  2. Hi Faerie,

    How wonderful to connect with someone of a similar background and interests. I hope you keep up with her too.

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Meeting M was a bright light in an otherwise dismal job. We do remain friends and still talk about everything.

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  3. We all need 'that friend' who knows us ...the deep down inside us. Glad you found that...hugs abby

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    1. I agree and M is the only friend I've ever shared so much of myself. She's truly a gift in my life.

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  4. I wish i had that friend. You're lucky! Hold on to her!

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    1. We're still in contact Fondles. ☺ Though life is quite hectic right now for her. You could meet your M today, ya never know.

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  5. Great to find a good friend and fun to shop for new toys!

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    1. Yes indeed Minelle. 😉 Best use of a lunch break I've ever had. 😉

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  6. happy that you and M found each other. nice to have a friend you can truly be yourself with.

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    1. It really is. Only took me 50 years, guess I'm a late bloomer, lol.

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