Thanks everyone for the great ideas and suggestions on my last post. I'll be discuss them with Musicman and hopefully there will be some he is interested in trying out. If there is, I'll let ya know how it goes.
In the mean time, I'm being a bit of a tease and appealing to him in a way that I know works for him. Oh yes, I could just ask him if he's interested, but where's the fun in that?
Instead, I've chosen to email him. I know many of us choose to communicate the difficult things to our Dom's in that manner. It's just so much easier to write it all out and press that send button then to actually look him in the eye and speak. For me, that always seems to be the one time I find myself at a loss for words.
This particular email does not even address any of that stuff though. I know he reads everything I write, so he is already aware of the great suggestions we've been given.
Nope, I went a totally different way with this email. I found some pics of a particular activity that I know he is interested in pursuing and sent them to him. Hot, sexy pics that I think he will find arousing.
In addition, I did use the suede laces that I have, looped them together and tied them as anonymous suggested and left it in a convenient place for him to find. And, if he should decide to try the tilt want that Sunnygirl suggested, well, there a three of them already close at hand.
Ya never know, it just might work. Certainly can't hurt to try. If it doesn't, oh well, it's just a bit of my time that is lost.
sounds like the right path... :-)hugs
ReplyDeleteEvery once in a while I get inspired to let my naughty side out to play :)
DeleteLooking forward to hearing how things go :-) and about emailing, you're so right that there is just something about indirect communication when discussing something difficult. I'll text or email Sir things that I would never say (or say with much difficulty) to his face. Thank goodness for some modern conveniences.
ReplyDeleteThe email worked wonderfully well, unfortunately, circumstances beyond our control made things not so great for me. Oh well, such is life somedays :)
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