I need your help...Come take my poll and help a girl out

I love getting the edenfantasys newsletter emails every couple days. I've tried, with no success, to get Musicman to take me to an actual brick and mortar sex toy shop. He won't do it.  He doesn't care what toys I buy, but he isn't going into one of those shops, just not his thing I guess. Since I found edenfantasys and every purchase from them has gone well, I will continue to use them. I've been scammed a few times in the past and am not very trusting of purchasing things online. They have been a pleasure to deal with, so for the moment, they fit the bill for me.

They have a lot of choices and so far I have loved everything I have gotten. But, I now find myself in a bit of a dilemma. Having never really played much with toys in the past, we had nothing, so my first obvious choices were things that I really, really wanted. Things I felt I just had to have. They've been great choices so far, though we still don't always use them as much as I would like. I think it's kinda a learning curve for us. We went so many years without using toys that it is not a natural inclination to reach for them. When we use what we have it's tons of fun, we just don't think of it all that often. Ehh..something for us to work on, as I see it anyway.

Here's my dilemma, I have two things I'm interested in. I can't make up my mind which one I want next. I could, of course, get both. But that doesn't seem like the best approach for me. I think one new toy at a time is enough of a challenge for us at this point. I don't want to be overwhelmed by a bunch of toys we don't use all that much.

I thought maybe you could help me decide. I thought I would share what I'm interested in and then I would put up a poll. You can cast a vote for what you think I should get, or leave a comment, or both. Whatever tickles your fancy.

So, here is the first thing I'm considering:


Here's the link with the info about it.

It's a glass butt plug. I don't have a plug and would like to get one, but there are so many to choose from. This one has features I really like, and features I don't like. First of all, it's glass, I love my glass dildo, so that is appealing. Also, it has faeries etched on it. Yeah...sounds like it was made for me, doesn't it? As I said though, there are features I don't like. It has a fluffy bunny tail on it. Cute, but so not interested in that.  When I showed it to Musicman he suggested I get it and remove the fluffy tail. I could do that, but I'm just not sure.

I'm not sure, cause something else has caught my eye.  I have kinda fallen in love with the idea of getting some cuffs. I'm blaming that on Jake, if he didn't post such salacious posts as this one, or this one I probably wouldn't want them so much. They are positively drool worthy posts.

I've been looking at the selection of cuffs for a while. I like the looks of several pairs, but, since I've never used any I'm not too sure which ones I should try. I love the look of this pair.
I'm drawn to the fact that they have "tattoos" on them. I have quite a bit of my own real ink and always love the look. I just don't know how comfortable or sturdy they might be. I don't want to be drawn in by the pretty pictures. That happens sometimes.

So, I also have considered a pair like these.
They're not very pretty to look at, but they do seem sturdy and maybe more comfortable than leather. The product reviews say they are a good starter set, so maybe I should get those. Bonus, they have a matching pair of ankle cuffs available should I decide I want to get them too at some point. I'm not too sure about ankle cuffs, simply because we have a water bed. Fastening anything to a water bed is darn near impossible, unless we put some eye hooks in the wooden frame. 

Then there is this pair.

I just flat out like the way they look, they're pretty, that appeals to me, in a big way. They also have matching ankle cuffs available. I just don't know how sturdy they would be. And again, I don't want to be persuaded just by the look. Pretty, shiny things entrance me, but it doesn't mean they are my best bet or that I should put forth my hard earned money to buy them.

I just don't know what I should get. The more I look at them and the more I think about it the more indecisive I become. That's where you come in my friends. Cast your vote on the poll, or leave me a comment. Share your experiences with me, educate me, help me make a decision. Do I go for the butt plug, or do I get a pair of cuffs? Which pair of cuffs would you choose? Should I succumb to the butt plug with faeries etched on it or would you recommend a different one? Help! Please!

Pretty, Shiny, Intimidating Things

We have recently begun acquiring some toys. We haven't used many at all in the past and had none to speak of. I did posts about the vibrating egg and the glass dildo we got. I love both of them, but to be honest, most of the time we forget to use them. I guess it's something we have to take the time to adapt too. I mentioned in those posts that the thing I really wanted was out of stock. 

I had put that item on my wish list so when it was restocked I could get it. I get the edenfantasys newsletter so it's easy to check frequently for new items or things on the wish list that might have been out of stock.  They soon had the item restocked and I ordered it. The plain brown box arrived a couple weeks ago.

This item totally intrigued me when I saw it and I had to have it. But now, now that it's here, I'm a little intimidated by it. So intimidated by it that we haven't even tried it yet. Isn't that silly? Well, let me be totally honest. Technically, WE haven't tried it, but I did, once, just a few days ago. I finally got up my nerve and did it.

Ummm....yeah....I liked it, a lot. Though I only tried part of it. The other part I wasn't quite brave enough to try, yet.

It's pretty and shiny and matches my collar quite nicely. Aesthetically, it is going to pack quite the visual punch. Musicman is a very visual type person. I think he is gonna like it too.

He has mentioned he wants to see it on me, but I haven't told him yet that I tried it. That's cause he hasn't mentioned it since I tried it, and I got busy with other things before he got home and forgot to tell him. I don't like to accost him and totally overwhelm him the minute he gets in the door.  I can be that way sometimes. When I do, he usually just tunes me out anyway, so I've learned not to do it.

This is one of those things that seems to have gone on hold since I started working. Hopefully soon things are going to smooth out a bit and I will start my regular hours. Then I will have a bit more time to spend thinking about and exploring these things.

Ahem...yes, I have some wonderful ideas I should share with him about this thing. Some fantasies in my head he might be interested in knowing about. At the very least, I should try to find the time to model it for him. Or maybe I should try it again myself first, just so it doesn't seem so cumbersome.

Hmmm....what to do....what to do?

Oh yeah, did you want to know what it is? Maybe you have some experience you can share with me.

It's one of these,

If your interested you can find out more about it here.

Whaddya think? Wanna guess which part I DIDN't try?

Plain Brown Boxes

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