"Are you too tired for a Blowjob?"

 

 

The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
Thomas Merton

"Are you too tired for a blowjob?"

 

I bet some of us have heard this before. Or some may be thinking, that doesn't sound very Domly, he shouldn't ask, he should just tell me to give him a blowjob. Afterall, as a sub isn't it my place to serve? Aren't I his to use as he pleases?

 

Well, I agree completely, he doesn't need to ask, he can just tell me, but he won't. That's just not in him to do that. He has a core belief that a man does not take pleasure without giving his woman pleasure. A belief I whole heartedly support I might add. Just one of the many reasons I love him so much.

 

I certainly don't want to do anything to change that belief. What I do want to do is get him to understand how much pleasure I get from giving him pleasure. When he's tired or had a long day, I want to make him feel better. A blowjob always makes him feel better.

 

There is something so soothing and satisfying about laying my head on his thigh, face to face with his beautiful manhood. Something so comforting for me knowing that I can take my time and explore to my hearts content. Licking and stroking and sucking, spending time on all his most sensitive areas, my only goal, his pleasure.  

 

There is a total abscence of expectation on my part, other then to bring him pleasure. That is very powerful and very freeing for me. Obviously he is free to participate as much or as little as he would like. He might just lay there and enjoy, maybe occasionally gently stroking my hair and back, that's perfect. He might grab me by the hair and fuck my face, that's perfect too.  He might do both, or neither, but it doesn't really matter. What matters is that it feels good to him.

 

The mental effects for me, of giving him pleasure, in any way he desires at that moment, are the same as a more intense session that is focused on me. In turn, my body responds to the mental stimulation in a physical way. The same physical way it responds to the aforementioned intense session focused on me. In short, I get off too.

 

He may never be entirely comfortable telling me he wants or needs a blow job. Until he is I will keep asking him, "are you too tired for a blowjob?"