When I first proposed adding D/s and spanking to our bedroom antics it didn't occur to me that he would have fantasies or inclinations that I didn't know about. I never stopped to consider that he would propose ideas of his own. Naive of me, I know, but that's me, sometimes still very naive.
It didn't take long for me to realize the truth. Dominance looks somewhat different to him then it does to me. The first time he took the initiative and did something I had never even thought about, I was surprised. Surprised, but happy. Happy that he took the initiative, surprised that what he did turned me on.
Shortly thereafter he proposed something I wasn't so pleased about. That thing I've talked about, but still can't name. Something that had previously been a hard limit for me. It's still a limit, but no longer a hard one. He pushes me, but it's a subtle push, never too hard or too fast. We haven't breached this soft limit yet, but someday we will. Someday he will have slowly pushed past that limit.
He continues to sporadically push at that limit and others. Recently he has introduced another scenario that he would like to have happen. Again, it's something I knew about, but never really considered as a possibility because I wasn't interested.
He is slowly changing that, pushing my limits in the subtlest of ways. He's smart and sneaky about how he proposes these scenarios to me. He says nothing about them, until he has me right where he wants me. He slowly seduces me, kissing me until I'm breathless. Torturing my nipples until I'm gasping with want and need. Then, and only then does he start talking.
He gives a detailed narration of what he would like to see happen or what he would like to experience. His hands continue to roam my body, hitting all the perfect places at exactly the right moment to keep me on edge. He asks questions of me. What do I think of what he is proposing?
Ordinarily, in other circumstances, I wouldn't be at all interested. Given the frenzy of sexual energy I'm swept up in though, it starts to sound doable to me. I'm focused, not only on what he is doing to me, but on the things he is saying. They now seem more then a suggestion to me, more then just something he wants. I want it too.
He's sneaky, making me want things I never before wanted. Planting the seed and then stepping back to watch it grow. He planted a new seed, a new idea of something he wants. It is starting to grow and flower in my mind. What once, I never thought or considered doing I'm now considering. I'm wondering if what he has proposed might become something more then just a proposal. What once was a hard limit, is no longer.
He's subtle, and sneaky that man of mine. I barely notice anymore when he starts to push at my limits.