Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Stress Relief Spanking

I was hoping when I wrote the my last post that once it was written I would feel better. Sometimes all it takes is to get it out and I do feel better. No such luck that day, but I did not get worse and spiral totally out of control.

Musicman and I had been talking about the fact that when these episodes happen I think a spanking would help, he has his doubts. After he read my previous post Soul Deep he came into the kitchen where I was starting dinner. He took me in his arms and said, "if I'm reading right next time you get upset I'm supposed to do this," and then he started spanking me. I started to giggle like I always do but I did manage to say, "you are reading right." That was the entire conversation and I was soon back to making dinner.

Sunday was a lazy day, hanging out watching Nascar, I'm a huge fan and will be glued to the TV this Sunday watching Daytona. These are usually very comfortable days spent together, instead I was pretty quiet and not so interested in much of anything. Musicman approached me a few times to see if I was OK or if there was something he could do to help. He got very noncommittal answers from me followed by silence.

After a few times of this happening he stopped asking, instead he came over to the chair I was sitting in and reached for my hands. He pulled me up out of the chair and into his arms. As I buried my head in his neck the first swat fell. After a half dozen or so swats I was alternating between trying to crawl up his body and into his skin and hanging onto him for dear life as my knees melted underneath me. He asked me if I was starting to feel better. With my head still buried in his neck I shook it yes.

Then he turned me towards the stairs and gave me a gentle push while saying something about a wooden spoon that needed breaking in. I don't remember exactly what was said as I was already starting to float. I do remember walking up the stairs to our room, I sat on the lounge and took off my slippers and blouse. He came in shortly after and I was still sitting on the lounge in my skirt and cami. He just took my hands and lifted me back up into his arms, a few more swats and then he was unzipping my skirt. As it fell to the floor he told me to bend over. I now wonder if he realizes the power in those two words.

Things become a little hazy from here, I started out on my hands and knees on the lounge, within just a few swats  my head was buried in the lounge and I was getting a very thorough spanking. I remember the feel of the spoon tapping my inner thighs, I automatically adjusted and spread my legs to a wider stance. He really is very thorough, he spanked my backside, my thighs and the lady parts and I was lost in a fog of bliss.

It didn't really register that he had stopped spanking until a hand in my hair was pulling me up and against him. When his other hand came up around my throat and he was whispering in my ear that he wanted to fuck me all I could do was moan. He pushed me back down and was entering me before I even knew what was happening. Several orgasms later I was on my knees in front of him with his beautiful cock in my mouth, mmmm. I love when he cums on my face and it was the perfect ending to the perfect spanking.

He told me later he didn't really understand why spanking works when I feel like that, but he doesn't doubt it anymore. I don't understand either and I don't care if I ever do, i just know it works. I feel much better :)

To finish up I'd like to thank Sunnygirl for helping me learn to add pictures. Thanks Sunnygirl.  If you came to visit me at my home you would see lots of faeries, pictures and statues and wind chimes, etc. etc. etc. So since I now know how to add pics, you'll be seeing lots of them here too :)


                                                      

27 comments:

  1. I'm happy to see you were able to get a stress relief spanking and that you've found it works so well for you! I love when you said that when he swatted you, you just wanted to crawl into his skin and bury your head. I find myself wanting to grasp onto my bf and be as close as possible to him when he spanks me. Funny isn't it? That him spanking me leads to me wanting to grab him closer as opposed to flee?

    As for why it works for stress relief, it is because spanking releases endorphins, which make you feel good!

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    1. Riley I never want to flee, but we also don't do punishment spankings. I could not handle the negative connotations of that, too many bad memories for me.

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  2. Yep! That would help :) Glad you both worked it out.

    Dee x

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    1. Thanks Dee, are you guys working it out?

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    2. You have my deepest sympathies!!!

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  3. Ah yes! It does indeed work! Without going into so many of the biochemical reasons it works, just know there are biochemical reasons why it works!! LOL

    And there is certainly power in the words, "Bend Over!", isn't there?

    sarah

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    1. Yes it definitely works :) I'm still amazed by the power those two little words hold, lol.

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  4. I am so glad this worked out for you, I knew it would. It sounds wonderful. Especially with the adjustment of him going back to work this week.

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    1. It has been a tough couple months, we have a ways to go, but things are looking up.

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  5. I am so glad that MM started reading your blog, because once he knows what you need, he is all over it! He's Mr. Fix It.

    I sure don't know why it works aside from what some have written about the science behind it all, but who the heck cares, it works!

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    1. What he lacks in communication he makes up for in action, lol.

      I do find the science of it somewhat fascinating, but while I may explore that more, in the mean time, just do it, Haahaahaaa.

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  6. "Get over my knee" and bend over...words that get my attention..for sure.

    Glad you are doing better, and yes- pictures are fun aren't they?

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    1. Thanks Stormy, I have a feeling they make me feel a little differently then they do you, but either way they still have the power to affect us. I'm so glad I learned to do pics, after all they are worth a thousand words, lol.

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  7. Oh Faerie, I'm so glad that you got the stress relief spanking you were hoping for. And now Musicman knows that they work too. How wonderful! :)

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    1. Wonderful is a great way to describe it, thank you :)

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  8. Wonderful! It's hard for them to understand, I get it. But I don't care! They don't have to understand just do it. It sounds like you had a really good day, one of many I hope.

    Hugs,
    PK

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    1. Just do it, I've said that to Musicman before, maybe now that he has his proof it works he will go with it, lol.

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  9. im so glad you are feeling better....for some reason it just works doesnt it :)
    i like the picture at the end, the look on her faces sums up how i read you are now feeling :)
    love and hugs kiwi xxx

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    1. Very perceptive of you kiwi, the look on her face is exactly why I chose that particular pic.

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  10. O, beautiful!! i'm so glad for you. i think i need one of those spankings too, and i don't think my Sir gets that about me yet.... thanks for reminding me we have to let them know.

    hugs,

    aisha

    P.S. LOVE the pictures!

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    1. Isn't it funny how quick we forget we need to actually tell them stuff? I'm sure once you tell your Sir he will get it, good luck.

      I'm so glad you like the pics, I love faeries and love to have them around me all the time.

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  11. Let's hope Musicman will keep doing it now that he has proof it works. I hope you don't mind if I link to your post. I think every woman who feels she isn't getting enough spankings should have the man in her life read it.

    FD

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  12. Thanks so much for the lovely comment, if you think my post would help someone I would be honored :)

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  13. Stress relief spankings are unique in that you know in your mind you didn't act out or slip up and you just need to get some stress (duh) or pent up emotion out. The added benefit of being so close and then having sex, making love, whichever you did, just adds to the glow. Happy that you are feeling better. I have a post about set-up spankings that MDK will do in the morning before work so that I can stay focused. It sounds very similar. I've been seeing this type of spanking noted on quite a few blogs. At least we are asking for what we need. :D
    Fondly,
    Addy

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    1. We don't do any type of punitive spanking. Just fun sexy kinds and the stress relief, menopause is kicking my ass, lol. The mood swings are just SO much fun, NOT!!!!

      I make myself crazy with them and I know they ain't no treat for Musicman either. Thank goodness we found a way to handle them :)

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  14. sounds like that was a great day

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