Monday, July 14, 2014

Vacation, Staycation or Playcation?

Several months ago I mentioned that Musicman had put in for time off from work. I immediately put in for the same time off and ran with the idea of going away. It's been a long time since we had the luxury of vacation time. I knew what would make for the perfect get away for us, but wasn't sure I could make it come to fruition.

I tried. I really tried hard, but just couldn't find the ideal situation for us. Musicman even did some research and didn't really come up with anything ideal either. The kids and their needs had something to do with that, but that's become the reality I have to deal with.

So, deal with reality I did. We weren't going away, but that didn't mean we couldn't still have fun. The first night that our vacation officially started, I made some lists. I made one list of things I wanted to get accomplished around the house. I made another list of day trips or places I wanted to go. Then I made one last list, a list of things I wanted to do.

That last list, in my opinion, was the most important. The entire list contained 2 things:
sex daily,
spankings as often as privacy allows. 

Musicman read and approved of my lists. I had not assigned any particular thing to any day. That became a fluid thing based on Musicman's preferences. That's kinda how it goes when you live with a dominant man, at least for me.

We accomplished almost everything on my chore list. We experienced almost everything on my places to go list. My last list? Yeah, that went pretty well too.

Out of 10 days, we missed 2. I didn't feel like a failure, cause there were several days when we found time to play multiple times. We were able to employ instruments other than the very quiet cane. We revisited the magic paddle, the flogger and the leather strap, many times.

He went above and beyond, making me coffee, serving me breakfast in bed, more than once. And, I actually went a whole entire week with out cooking one single meal. Musicman is an incredibly picky eater and me not cooking usually only occurs once a week.

For me, it was a wonderful week and a half, spent with the absolute love of my life, playing to my hearts content. Unfortunately, I had to return to reality today. Back to work for both of us, much to our chagrin.

No more sleeping in. No more coffee and breakfast in bed. No more lying in the sun, poolside, reading, while Musicman napped. No more roaming barefoot in my favorite sundress and sun hat. No more spankings, sex and orgasms galore, whenever we were able to take advantage of an empty house. Which, just let me say, increases greatly if we aren't waisting time working.

This morning my coworkers all asked me how my vacation was? I couldn't contain the wicked smile that broke out each time. They also asked me what I did? I really wanted to tell them, I connected on another level with my husband. I had tons of great sex, spankings, floggings, strappings. Orgasms beyond what I can sometimes comprehend. Just the memories of them take my breath away. Those are the kind of memories I always enjoy making.  I was the center of his attention. For ten whole days.

I didn't tell them that, but I may have hinted a bit, with out providing details, of course.  While I may not have found what I thought was the perfect get away, I believe I found something perfect anyway.

~Sleeping Fairy

Fairy

24 comments:

  1. So glad you had a wonderful time together!!

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    1. Thanks, it was delightful and very much needed.

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  2. That sounds like the perfect little vacation either way. Lol. Time off is always nice whether you go exploring somewhere else or stay in and explore each other. ;)

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    1. I was a bit disappointed that we couldn't go away, but that didn't last long. We had a very nice time together and I never wanted it to end.

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  3. Sure sounds perfect to me. After the last year, you two needed some 'just us' time..glad all your lists were accomplished.
    hugs abby

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    1. Though not we originally wanted, it ended up being just what we needed. It was certainly better than what I was doing last July, which was losing my youngest brother. That incident kind of erased my entire summer last year.

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  4. Excellent vacation! I'm so glad you were able to enjoy it so much.

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    1. It really did turn out perfectly for us.

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  5. Hey Faerie...So happy you and MM had such a lovely "cation" :D Hope you get a chance to play again soon.

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. Thanks Cat, I just wish we could di it more often. No playtime since vacation ended, but returning to reality has been draining for both of us.

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  6. Sounds like a perfect vacation to me :) So glad you had such a wonderful time together and that you accomplished the items on your lists :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. I was very happy that we accomplished so much and still managed to have a wonderful time.

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  7. Sometimes, it's not about going away but spending endless hours together just reconnecting.

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    1. Absolutely! I'm just so happy we managed to have the privacy to reconnect as much as we did. That is always a challenge these days.

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  8. This sounds WONDERFUL Faerie! :) I am so glad to hear that you and MM had such a great time on you staycation. You deserve it. Your lists sound like a good thing to think about. Thanks for sharing. Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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    1. The lists ended up being a stroke of genius for me. We were able to plan each day in a leisurely fashion, based on what we felt like doing and by the end we had done almost everything we wanted to do.

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  9. Sounds perfect, it's what you wanted so it didn't matter where it happened.
    Sorry about reality stepping yesterday.

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    1. My whole goal for this vacation was to have some much needed privacy when we wanted it, not based on someone else's schedule. Since we mostly accomplished that, I was very pleased.

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  10. Even though you didn't go away, it sounds like it was just what the two of you needed. Sorry your vacation couldn't have lasted a month instead!

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    1. It was what we needed and it was wonderful. I hated having to return to the everyday reality of our lives, but since we aren't independently wealthy we knew it would happen.

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  11. Isn't going back to work the pits? I'm also trying to plan end of summer in Maine for Sir and I but everywhere we want to stay is booked. I said we can vacation at my cabin and buy lobster from the grocery store but it's not quite the same. :-). So glad u had a great vacation.

    Even a bad day off is better than a good day at work and I actually love my job.

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    1. I love my job too, but having the time off to spend together was so wonderful. We ran into the same problem of not being able to find any place we wanted to go being available. I hope you find something that works as well for you as ours turned out to be.

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  12. glad you had the perfect vacation together...sometimes you don't need to go far...or anywhere at all... :-) Hugs

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    1. Thanks Terps, it turned out to be everything I wanted and more.

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