Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Hair Is Where It's At

Hair, something we women sometimes struggle with. It's big business, cuts, color, perms, blow dryer's, curling irons, flat irons, clips, bands and so much more.

I spent many a year as a teen and young adult torturing my hair to make it look like whatever the current popular style was. It never worked, my hair has a mind of it's own. It's part curly, part straight, more salt than pepper, one step away from dreadlocks really. I started going grey at 15 and colored it for many years. I haven't colored it for quite some time now though, it's just too much work.

I don't own a hair dryer or curling iron or flat iron. I do own a large collection of clips and bands. They reside in a pretty crystal vase on my bedside table. I'm not really a crystal vase type person, but it was a gift and I thought I would put it to good use holding the myriad hair stuff I do own.

Until recently my hair was extremely long, almost to my waist. Just shampooing it and picking it out was a major job. It's too thick for a comb and a brush would be a total nightmare to try and use. I do own a hairbrush, but that resides with our other toys, it's never been used on hair.

A couple months ago I felt like making a bit of a change. I cut my hair. I did not ask permission, that never even occurred to me. I have a feeling that if I would have asked, Musicman would have looked at me like I had just grown horns out of my head or some such thing. He likes my hair long, but he doesn't seem to desire that tight of control.

I cut over a foot of hair off, it now hangs a few inches below my shoulders. All he said was, you cut a lot of hair off. Yes, yes I did, but it is still long enough to make a very decent pony tail for pulling and I still need to put it up before giving a BJ if I don't want it straying into my mouth. Ack, hairballs.

The people who reacted the most were my coworkers and clients. When they saw it, they acted as if I had committed a major crime, or something equally as heinous. I assured them all that it would grow back and quite quickly too. My shorter hair has not stopped a few of them from petting it on a regular basis. Yes, I have a few clients and even one coworker that seem to truly love my hair, they can't seem to keep their hands off it.

I don't mind my clients doing it, I have gotten used to the fact that they are all quite affectionate and hugs and kisses and touching is an everyday occurrence with them. The part that took a bit of getting used to was the coworker. It's a female and she touches it as often, if not more, than my clients do.

I wonder what she would say if she knew that hair pulling is something I absolutely love? Though, it's probably a good thing she doesn't know, cause if she pulled my hair I'd have to say something, I only like it when Musicman does it. Do any of you see your hair and the way you wear it as a symbol of your submission? Even though I don't have to ask permission to cut it, I do. When I decided to cut it, a decision that took me over a year to make, I did so knowing that I would keep it at a length he finds pleasing.

Fairy with Long Hair

18 comments:

  1. My husband doesn't appear to have much interest in my hair. Which is a shame, because hair pulling is something that really turns me on and I'm convinced I have an erogenous zone in my scalp. It's like an instant switch for me, that tug and sting.

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    1. I think I have that same switch. I'm sorry your hubby doesn't appear to have any interest in your hair. Have you talked to him about it? Maybe he just needs some reassurance that it really is what you want. Good luck if you decide to talk to him about it.

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  2. Hubby likes my hair long and I can do different styles with it and also had some cut off, but not without permission. He’d be mad at me if I made a major change without his ok, and we’d always discuss my hairstyles and want to find some that both of us like. But at the moment I just let it grow, which is good for hubby, because when we go down to business in the bedroom, he sometimes pulls my hair during scenes. I enjoy that in the right moments, but don’t like it too rough. What gets my juices flowing then, is that he is more dominant when he pulls my hair and that helps me to find my place.
    But outside the bedroom I feel this connection only after a significant change in hair style, e.g. when my hair is considerably shorter or permed, because it always reminds me that hubby had a major say in what my hair looks like.
    I like your idea with the crystal vase. I am sure it looks great and it is not boring, like a little box.

    hugs

    Nina

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    1. I do many different up do's and half up do's with mine also. I have tried over the years to change the style, but it is what it is, weirdly, wildy curly. It's better to just go with it and learning to work with it has been so much easier than torturing it to do what it doesn't want to do. Musicman has always liked to tug and pull on my hair and doesn't like it if I have a lot of product in it. So, in a way, he has influenced my hair style.

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  3. I have dyed my hair because H asked me to try it lighter. I love it now when he mentions that he loves my hair because it reminds him of my submission.
    He also requires me to put it up with ribbons each night before bed. I hate this as it kinks my hair and it needs straightening each morning.

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    1. I haven't dyed my hair in many years, it is just too much work. If I did, I would color it red as that is the color Musicmman likes. I'd say the only requirement I have from Musicman is that I not use a lot of product in my hair, he doesn't care for the feel of that.

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  4. oh I love it when he pulls my hair which he does a lot, mostly to get me into and hold me in position, sometimes just because. It's also wonderful when he strokes it, or even better, washes and combs it for me!

    I always discuss possible hair styles with him. I think he appreciates getting a say, although he's always very clear that he's supportive of what I want. The funny thing is, once I did have it cut from pretty long to really very short, and nobody noticed! He knew of course, and the kids watched it being done, but neighbours/relatives/etc - didn't say a word!

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    1. I love it when he pulls my hair too. As long as I have it long enough for that, he's happy. I have, in years past, cut it very short, he made sure I knew that it was my hair and I could do what I wanted with it, but he didn't like it.

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  5. I hadn't really thought of it until you asked, but the way I wear my hair now dose have to do with my coming out to Nick. When I came out - I did think I wanted to be submissive, I changed two things in my life - I began sleeping in the nude and I stopped wearing my hair in a short curly perm. I wore it that way because it was easy. Everyone was thrilled when I stopped, both the kids and Nick. It's still fairly short, but I don't curl it. Still color it, I don't want to look like Nick mom, and I would.

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    1. I think Musicman finds it quite funny that some people think I am older than him because of my grey hair. I'm not, but if it amuses him I'm okay with it. My hair has always been a lot of work, once I do it in the morning, I'm done. I don't even carry any hair products or a comb or anything like that with me. It would be useless anyway, once it's dry, I can't even get a pick through it without the end result being a huge afro, not the look I'm going for.

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  6. Wow Faerie...that's a lot of hair...to cut off a foot and still be below your shoulders! I did get used to wearing my hair and makeup the way my ex preferred and continued with Matthew...both liked longer hair but ex allowed very little to no makeup whereas Matthew allowed a bit more as long is it took no more than 5 minutes to put on. :D

    Hope you're enjoying the convenience of your new haircut. ;)

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. I do have a TON of hair, and it grows very quickly too. Funny, but I don't wear much makeup anymore either. It takes me no longer than 5 minutes to do and only if we are going out or to work. I think that has a lot to do with the fact that he doesn't much care for it either.

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  7. Wow Fearie, over a foot! Rick likes my hair long and I need his permission to cut it. I had it cut last a couple of months ago and ended up having a bit too much taken off ... oops! Fortunately though, he said he liked it, even though it was shorter thsn he expected. It's about shoulder length now. Love hair pulling too:)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. I usually only cut my hair about every 2-3 years. He likes it long, it's easier for me to take care of and I can put it up for work, which is essential with my job. While I don't need permission, I know he doesn't care for it short, so I don't do that, anymore :)

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      I was sitting at the bar minding my business when this skinny ginger number came up and sat next to me. She looked a lot younger than me. She ordered a snakebite — a pint glass of half lager, half cider with a shot of black-currant cordial. I ordered the same. Her name was Ceri and she was from Wales, a poor village somewhere or other. She was sixteen and she only got fifty-pence pocket money a week. We smoked and smoked and smoked.


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  8. I think my hubby likes my long hair...though I have never worn it differently...as a teen I wore it to my lower back however now it only really ever grows to just beyond my shoulders... Hugs

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  9. http://tamilsexhotstories.blogspot.in/p/international-sex-stories.html

    I was sitting at the bar minding my business when this skinny ginger number came up and sat next to me. She looked a lot younger than me. She ordered a snakebite — a pint glass of half lager, half cider with a shot of black-currant cordial. I ordered the same. Her name was Ceri and she was from Wales, a poor village somewhere or other. She was sixteen and she only got fifty-pence pocket money a week. We smoked and smoked and smoked.


    http://tamilsexhotstories.blogspot.in/p/international-sex-stories.html

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