Sunday, September 21, 2014

His Proposal

No, I do not mean a proposal of marriage. That came a few decades ago and technically, I think I was the one that proposed, but that's a story for another day. 

He proposed a new rule. Yes, I said a "rule". That threw me off a little, cause we don't have rules, per se. We have expectations, but not rules, and now he is proposing one.

He proposed a rule regarding a specific act of service to be done daily. My first thought, Ummm...okay, I could do that. The proposed act is something I enjoy immensely, so performing it daily would be easy for me.

Then I really started thinking about it. I realized that not only would it be easy for me, but it's something I really do want to do, for many reasons. I realized that this particular act would be a wonderful way him for to exert more control, something I would like, but don't push for.

There are many different ways this act can be completed, he knows it and so do I. I have let my imagination run away with me a bit. I've thought of all the many scenario's that could occur surrounding this act and the fact that he controls all of them. That is something I find very hot, something I really do want.

I also realized that if we really do put this rule into place that it will definitely help him grow as a dominant. He has always shied away from asking me for this particular thing. I'm not sure why, but I think he thinks it is selfish of him. That's it's something a man shouldn't ask for too often maybe? I know he believes whenever we are intimate I should always be satisfied. That's not something I am going to argue with by any means, but I don't think he realizes that I do find this satisfying.

If it were the only thing that ever happened, I wouldn't find it that way, but if he is in control of the situation, he can choose how it plays out. That's what I want, that's what I find so appealing about this proposal. It would be a blatant show of his control on a daily basis. Yep, I'd most definitely be good with this rule.

He hasn't really implemented it, yet. I don't even know if he has really thought any more about it, but I hope he does. I think I could get used to having rules if this is going to be our first one.

The Art Of Animation, Haoyuan

12 comments:

  1. It does sound like a win/win situation...hope it comes to be.
    hugs abby

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    1. I see it as a win/win situation too. I'm not sure exactly why he hasn't implemented it yet, other than he doesn't actually see it the way I do. With us, That's totally predictable.

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  2. This sounds like things are going very well, Faerie! :) I am happy for you. And I hope that you and Musicman have lots of fun with your new rule! Many hugs,

    <3 Katie

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    1. I hope we do too, but it hasn't happened yet. I have an idea why, but I haven't offered that up to him. I guess I'm hoping he will figure it out for himself and act on it appropriately.

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  3. Hey Faerie...you sound so happy and I agree with Abby...win/win situation. You get to perform an act of service for the man you love, that act is something you enjoy doing and your man grows in his dominance...what's not to like about that! ;) Hope Musicman implements the new rule asap.

    Hugs and Blessings...
    Cat

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    1. After some very difficult times things are finally going a bit a better for us. I do wish he would take advantage of his proposal, but that's completely up to him. I am NOT going to push him, despite the fact that I would love it.

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  4. Hi Faerie, I agree with the others. This sounds wonderful, a definite win/win! I'm happy for you and hope the new rule is implemented soon!

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. I hope so too. I think it would go a long way towards deepening my submission. That's something I would willingly embrace. I think I have some more work to do before he gives in, but I think I might be up to the effort.

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  5. Sounds absolutely lovely faerie. I hope it does get implemented soon. What is the hold up? Is it still being contemplated? Oh, one other thing .... what is it?

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    1. Haahaaahaaaa. Nice one sub hub. I rarely ever reveal my hand before it's time. I'm not to sure what the hold up is, other than it's something he thinks I don't deserve yet. If it should come to pass, I will willingly talk about.

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    1. Don't think it's gonna happen any time soon, but just the fact that he suggested it...is thinking of it...makes me hopeful.

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