tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post6802302006797578924..comments2024-03-04T22:23:29.046-05:00Comments on faerie learns to fly: My SecretFaerie Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10815932181165053031noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-12038532814863213552012-11-04T21:51:48.355-05:002012-11-04T21:51:48.355-05:00Hello Mandy, I don't believe in coincidences :...Hello Mandy, I don't believe in coincidences :) You are welcome to share here :) <br /><br />I'm so sorry you experienced that and I understand everything you are saying. I can offer you this from my own experiences, it's like peeling away the layers of an onion. Each layer brings it's own tears, but once disposed of, thay can't hurt you anymore. As the layers fall away, they reveal more and more beauty, joy and love. My hope for both of us, is that we find some day find that center.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-67563316409707259342012-11-04T15:05:52.048-05:002012-11-04T15:05:52.048-05:00I'm sorry to bring back the memories for you, ...I'm sorry to bring back the memories for you, but I just came across your post by synchronicity (not coincidence), and needed to share.<br />When I was a young teenager, I was sexually abused by my grandfather. It only happened once, but the hurt, shame, self-hatred, guilt, and anger stayed with me for a long time. I understand what a betrayal it is for a family member to do something like that to a child, and how deeply it can scar someone. I've come to understand that what happened wasn't my fault, and I've gotten past the guilt, shame, and self-hatred. I'm still working on the anger, and I think one day the hurt will truly leave.<br /><br />Airing your emotions might release some negative energy into the universe, but that will allow the universe to purify and positively charge that energy, and return it to you. Keeping the negative energy within yourself does more harm than letting it go to be renewed.<br />We may not know one another, but I want you to know that I love you & your courage in sharing your story. May you find peace & happiness everywhere you look.Mandynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-83861527755469330512012-08-13T13:40:16.016-04:002012-08-13T13:40:16.016-04:00I'm sorry I made you cry, but you are right, I...I'm sorry I made you cry, but you are right, I won. So dry your eyes and share a smile with me :Dfaerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-2395901152671646222012-08-12T18:39:29.851-04:002012-08-12T18:39:29.851-04:00Huggsss faerie. i cried for you. know that you are...Huggsss faerie. i cried for you. know that you are loved by many people. It's not a secret anymore. You're not a victim anymore. You have survived and by surviving you won!<br /><br />Huuugggssssssss,<br /><br />lilyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-80737585498182029122012-04-29T15:31:50.330-04:002012-04-29T15:31:50.330-04:00When writing this post I never considered the fact...When writing this post I never considered the fact that it might help someone. It was a difficult story to tell as I'm sure you can imagine, but it helped me so much to tell it. <br /><br />I'm glad it gave you the courage you needed. If the "something" is what I think it might be, let me just say this: You are not alone!!faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-27047188512105177942012-04-29T15:11:29.086-04:002012-04-29T15:11:29.086-04:00Nothing more to say than *hugs*, and you gave me c...Nothing more to say than *hugs*, and you gave me courage to do something that I have been chewing on for a while.Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-39471757610948293192012-04-29T13:48:10.410-04:002012-04-29T13:48:10.410-04:00Thank you Irishey for the wonderfully supportive c...Thank you Irishey for the wonderfully supportive comment. This community of people have been a godsend to me as I work out some very difficult issues in my life. <br /><br />I have to say I really don't care for the fact that this post is my overall most popular one. It continues to get 3x the hits of anything else I have written. I never stopped to think about it the way you explained. Thank you for giving me your view, it has changed the way I will look at it from now on. Be well, visit again anytime :)faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-13248852558267297082012-04-29T13:11:34.698-04:002012-04-29T13:11:34.698-04:00Hi, faerie. I've seen you comment around the b...Hi, faerie. I've seen you comment around the blogs since I started reading in November last year, and started reading your blog yesterday. Just wanted to weigh in with some positive energy, and tell you that by you putting your story out here, you have helped open the door for others to do the same. That is huge good karma. So often, people don't know what to do or say to help a survivor, or even a child still in the midst of this nightmare. It doesn't help much to be told others have experienced your pain, but tangible real-life accounts let survivors (and sufferers) truly know they are not alone - major positive energy you unleashed here with your experiences.<br /><br />Non-judgmental support, peaceful encouragement, steadfast friendship, genuine interest in your welfare without curiosity for curiosity's sake alone...that's what I see here for you. It's nice you have a good clan. :-) Peace and blessings.<br /><br />IrisheyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-6223040825706354962012-04-27T12:47:49.244-04:002012-04-27T12:47:49.244-04:00Thank you for the nice thoughts Ponyboy. It was ha...Thank you for the nice thoughts Ponyboy. It was hard to write, but not as hard as living with the secret.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-57315171316277432282012-04-27T12:02:07.516-04:002012-04-27T12:02:07.516-04:00Obviously reading this long after it was written, ...Obviously reading this long after it was written, it must have been hard to write. I like the word survivor that you used, a very fitting word for what you went through.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-19450662890133824302011-12-17T05:49:04.232-05:002011-12-17T05:49:04.232-05:00We, the founding members of the "I survived m...We, the founding members of the "I survived my Mother" club, hereby make you an honorary member. This membership comes with a prescription for xanax, a case of vodka, and years of therapy...Congratulations.<br /><br />Communal support is a wonderful thing.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00447447456548485908noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-17790634978351638762011-12-06T15:45:03.140-05:002011-12-06T15:45:03.140-05:00I want to thank you for sharing this horrible, hor...I want to thank you for sharing this horrible, horrible secret, for letting it out.<br /><br />I am so sorry that this happened to you.Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-78682288391135634962011-12-01T19:50:28.410-05:002011-12-01T19:50:28.410-05:00Faerie first of all im so sorry for your pain and ...Faerie first of all im so sorry for your pain and suffering and that you had to go through al of that i wish there was some way i could take it away for you.<br />This is a good place a safe place to share whatever you need to so please dont ever apologise for doing that. We are here to listen and help as much as we can <br />love and hugs kiwi xxxxkiwigirliegirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07875041768284887283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-77009272917509997652011-11-19T12:43:25.782-05:002011-11-19T12:43:25.782-05:00I don't believe you did release so much negati...I don't believe you did release so much negative energy into the world, quite the opposite in fact. You and your energy are what the world needs and that is what the world gets, now a little lighter and a little brighter than before, Luck us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-73297577476281682252011-11-14T16:07:49.635-05:002011-11-14T16:07:49.635-05:00SS, secrets can be very painful things. Thanks for...SS, secrets can be very painful things. Thanks for the hug.<br /><br />Daisy, Thank you for the prayers, I can use all the help I can get.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-9571571825888086492011-11-12T21:13:45.493-05:002011-11-12T21:13:45.493-05:00Hell, girl! I am so so sorry there was no-one anyw...Hell, girl! I am so so sorry there was no-one anywhere in your life you could trust to go to and get it stopped. What a sick person you had as a father...<br />Darlin, share what you need to here, its safe, and you are among friends. <br />ALl I can say is, he wrecked your past, but has no power to wreck your future. Don't let him. He shaped your childhood, you can shape your adult life.<br />Bless you, and your lovely husband. I will be praying for continued healing for you. xxxxxxxxxxDaisychainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10327195200946342709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-77404532509841083252011-11-10T22:01:59.034-05:002011-11-10T22:01:59.034-05:00Bless your heart! I hope blogging about this has ...Bless your heart! I hope blogging about this has been at least a little cathartic. Don't really know what to say, but that puts some things in perspective about secrets. Makes me want to give you a hug.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-35483719687041027572011-11-09T09:15:36.216-05:002011-11-09T09:15:36.216-05:00Thank you everyone for your kind comments. If you ...Thank you everyone for your kind comments. If you get to know me at all, you will realize I'm all about the energy. I believe in the energy of the universe and my place in it. I'm not comfortable with releasing this much negativity into the world. I don't like to cause pain to anyone. But I simply couldn't keep it in anymore, and I was unwilling to push it down and ignore the things I want. This is the first step of me taking the power back. I could not have done that without all the support and love you have given me. I simply don't have the words to express how grateful I am. So I will just say THANK YOU.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-36838745673794386842011-11-08T23:09:41.664-05:002011-11-08T23:09:41.664-05:00faerie,
I know others have already said it, but I...faerie,<br /><br />I know others have already said it, but I'll say it, too! None of what happened was your fault!!! You were an innocent little girl and dealing with the situation the best way you knew how. <br /><br />It doesn't take away the pain, but I am very sorry about what happened. I wish that I could erase the bad memories and put happy memories in their place. (((Hugs!)))<br /><br />Love,<br />Kitty<br /><br />P.S. I'm so glad you have a loving husband!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-17814197442785336192011-11-08T20:32:16.010-05:002011-11-08T20:32:16.010-05:00I'm so sorry to hear what you have suffered. ...I'm so sorry to hear what you have suffered. There are no words that do justice. As everyone else has said, this is a safe place to talk out anything. You're among friends.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02119037021959690783noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-63564456255536636062011-11-08T16:00:04.103-05:002011-11-08T16:00:04.103-05:00I'm so happy you survived and so sad/angry tha...I'm so happy you survived and so sad/angry that you had to to deal with such evil. I'm glad you have found a safe place with your husband and here with us. Blogging doesn't fix things, it cant' make the bad go away but it is a safe place to go and be exactly who you are - happy, sad, angry, depressed, joyful, you'll feel it all here and you have friends to go through all the emotions with you.<br /><br />Many hugs,<br />PKPKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-48509564543733210152011-11-08T15:17:37.250-05:002011-11-08T15:17:37.250-05:00Oh Faerie! I am so sorry that has been locked insi...Oh Faerie! I am so sorry that has been locked inside of you. What a hard secret to have and keep. Please let out what you can on your blog. I think you can feel safe enough and feel among friends here too. I dump many problems on to the internet and sometimes I feel much better from it. ((hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-72557626716910513892011-11-08T13:36:04.284-05:002011-11-08T13:36:04.284-05:00I am sorry for your suffering and your pain...none...I am sorry for your suffering and your pain...none of it was/is your fault. Share here, it is a safe place. hugs....abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208861579579989418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-57586460223689773212011-11-08T13:12:10.783-05:002011-11-08T13:12:10.783-05:00All I can say is I am sorry you suffered such hor...All I can say is I am sorry you suffered such horrific abuse as a child. And I hope it helps to share your story. I know all your blogging friends wish you the best.<br /><br />What happened to you should never happen to a child.<br /><br />FDFlorida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-48376961421898982082011-11-08T12:44:33.439-05:002011-11-08T12:44:33.439-05:00Yes you are free to share here. those things shoul...Yes you are free to share here. those things should never happen to a child and we will support you through listening/reading.Kendrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00612231074270867248noreply@blogger.com