tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post4332100147678882346..comments2024-03-04T22:23:29.046-05:00Comments on faerie learns to fly: WhyFaerie Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10815932181165053031noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-72881796650715904142014-04-02T18:28:26.795-04:002014-04-02T18:28:26.795-04:00Thanks for the support Angel Blue, it is very much...Thanks for the support Angel Blue, it is very much appreciated.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-72407987741029702662014-04-02T18:27:51.478-04:002014-04-02T18:27:51.478-04:00Not only is it a pinprick, but it is a blinking pi...Not only is it a pinprick, but it is a blinking pinprick, which means sometimes I don't see it. Though I am ever the optimist, so I will keep looking for it.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-89193045586298782752014-04-02T18:26:50.761-04:002014-04-02T18:26:50.761-04:00I don't think you misunderstood. I believe any...I don't think you misunderstood. I believe anyone reading that post may have also thought the way you did. A resolution needs to come soon, or I may be forced to break that vow I made to never consider divorce. That is not what I want, but I don't know how much longer I can live the way I am currently living.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-14074696081594724152014-04-02T18:24:42.189-04:002014-04-02T18:24:42.189-04:00I would say it is similar enough. Three years ago,...I would say it is similar enough. Three years ago, we had an empty nest and we loved it, then both adult kids moved back for a "few weeks", that was 1 1/2 years ago. Our daughter has since had a child and moved her BF and 2 dogs into our home. I talk quite a bit about the lack of privacy this causes, but that is really just the tip of the ice berg for me. There are just so many issues surrounding the whole situation, ones that mainly effect me and Musicman's lack of willingness to do something about the situation has been extremely draining and difficult for me. faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-41729565349289930182014-04-02T18:20:40.767-04:002014-04-02T18:20:40.767-04:00Thanks, I am trying. Not sure how much longer I ca...Thanks, I am trying. Not sure how much longer I can do it, but for now, I keep trying.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-22673130815406951702014-04-02T18:19:51.959-04:002014-04-02T18:19:51.959-04:00Thanks Bleuame, it often feels as if I am failing ...Thanks Bleuame, it often feels as if I am failing miserably at trying to cope with this issue. Musicman needs to make a decision very soon about doing things my way, or coming up with a solution to this issue of his own, because I feel like I am on the verge of a serious break down. faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-83871305715133007462014-04-01T00:31:51.198-04:002014-04-01T00:31:51.198-04:00I'm glad you can see a light in the tunnel, ev...I'm glad you can see a light in the tunnel, even if its a pinprick :-)River Wildhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12914080438490765849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-18055135187089199382014-03-31T23:25:37.261-04:002014-03-31T23:25:37.261-04:00Hey Faerie...After reading this post, I think I mu...Hey Faerie...After reading this post, I think I must have misunderstood a bit from the last post. So happy to hear that divorce is not an option. Don't really have any specific advice...so sending lots of prayers, healing energy and positive thoughts that everything is resolved soon.<br /><br />Blessings...<br />CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-34598540408030968592014-03-31T17:18:53.664-04:002014-03-31T17:18:53.664-04:00Faerie, I wish that I had been reading your blog a...Faerie, I wish that I had been reading your blog all along so I could better understand what is going on. Becoming a submissive wife really helped our marriage at the time when we were both terribly unhappy. Now three years later and a month before our 24th I could almost say that I understand what you are feeling. I truly believe that when Ty needed my help the most because of some stuff with his work and our financial situation, I was there - 100%. Then things got better for him and his job, the kids didn't need me like they used to because they were older and much more independent and I wanted to be the one who now lived for me. Nobody understood that. Ty was busy doing his thing, and the kids only needed me for rides, food. and money. I thought about going back to school so I could get a decent job, I thought about all kinds of things that I could do for me that would still allow me to be there for my family. Ty didn't understand one bit. The not being needed and now the "ignoring" of me really hurt. I have no idea if this is even similar to what is going on with you but it sounded similar to what was happening a few years ago. <br />No matter what, I am glad that you are blogging and have made so many friends. I will keep you in my prayers. . Blondiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10990349853331249894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-32748574602208168952014-03-31T09:42:41.819-04:002014-03-31T09:42:41.819-04:00hugs...keep hanging in there, friend... hugs...keep hanging in there, friend... Terpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-27741708012052859472014-03-31T07:30:15.356-04:002014-03-31T07:30:15.356-04:00Faerie,
Huge hugs to you.
You're doing an a...Faerie, <br /><br />Huge hugs to you. <br />You're doing an amazing continuous job of hanging in there. I hope there is a way for you and Musicman to perhaps, bridge this gap and for you to find relief, soon. Bleue D'âmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12945301989408243513noreply@blogger.com