tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post3380838937923101465..comments2024-03-04T22:23:29.046-05:00Comments on faerie learns to fly: A Fairy Tale?Faerie Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10815932181165053031noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-49328833848273378522015-02-18T21:06:07.391-05:002015-02-18T21:06:07.391-05:00Thank you Jay for the positive thoughts and sendin...Thank you Jay for the positive thoughts and sending them back to you. I've been lighting torches for awhile and just hope I have enough to last until I can see the light again.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-8540028340468185482015-02-18T21:02:47.263-05:002015-02-18T21:02:47.263-05:00Thank you for believing, even when I don't hav...Thank you for believing, even when I don't have the strength to.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-27454960745016598582015-02-05T08:28:48.985-05:002015-02-05T08:28:48.985-05:00"He will come back to you." I've tol..."He will come back to you." I've told myself that a lot in the last few months. Remind each other of good times and if possible try to spend some time doing something you both enjoy. Then, together, you can take on another day. It helps to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but sometimes you may have to light your own torches for a while. Sending positive thoughts your way!Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18040670158317646418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-68697114072155485692015-02-02T10:10:37.071-05:002015-02-02T10:10:37.071-05:00I do hope you find your happily ever after in your...I do hope you find your happily ever after in your fairy tale...I believe you will. HugsTerpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-60012715914659866332015-02-01T13:32:47.951-05:002015-02-01T13:32:47.951-05:00It always helps when I lose sight of the light to ...It always helps when I lose sight of the light to have people around me to show me the way back to it. Thank you for reminding of that.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-31211277196506248862015-02-01T13:31:39.204-05:002015-02-01T13:31:39.204-05:00Hi Ni Na, we have a long way to go to get through ...Hi Ni Na, we have a long way to go to get through this as there seems to be no end in sight to the situation that is causing all the issues, but I'm determined to get through it. A better understanding of the situation is helping alleviate some of the pain even though it hasn't really helped me find a good solution. faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-34586323065671131912015-02-01T13:29:28.132-05:002015-02-01T13:29:28.132-05:00Thank you Pearl. I will take all the strength, lov...Thank you Pearl. I will take all the strength, love and courage I can get. I'm gonna need it to get through this intake and failure is not an option for me.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-41208295751535595812015-02-01T13:28:00.531-05:002015-02-01T13:28:00.531-05:00Thanks Roz, I have had some important revelations ...Thanks Roz, I have had some important revelations as I have worked through all this. I have not come up with any good solutions, but I have realized that what I shouldn't do. I guess that is as a good a place to start as any.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-21042381744901609692015-02-01T13:26:10.305-05:002015-02-01T13:26:10.305-05:00Thank you Rose, just having the support of friends...Thank you Rose, just having the support of friends who are willing to let me vent an remind me that I can get through this is extremely helpful.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-42562466720724857392015-02-01T13:24:54.280-05:002015-02-01T13:24:54.280-05:00Thanks for reminding me that I am strong, I haven&...Thanks for reminding me that I am strong, I haven't felt very strong lately. I have come to realize that he is just as frustrated with our current situation as I am and though we have totally opposite ways of handling the situation we really do need to find a way to work together to get through it. That won't be an easy feat, but worthwhile in the long run.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-87800745405828612992015-02-01T13:22:43.044-05:002015-02-01T13:22:43.044-05:00Thank you PK and as usual you are right about so m...Thank you PK and as usual you are right about so many things. I do still take of everyone and everything, even when I am in total disagreement about the situation. I really do need to learn to take better care of myself and put myself at the top of the list. It would also be helpful if he would realize that I need more from him. I guess that is my job to communicate that to him in a nonthreatening way. Don't know if I will be successful, but I'm gonna do my best to give it a try.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-58343797070992969232015-02-01T13:18:06.121-05:002015-02-01T13:18:06.121-05:00Cat you have hit the nail on the head. We have bee...Cat you have hit the nail on the head. We have been through a lot over the years and got through them together. This current situation we have been dealing with is one we have polar opposite views on and it has been extremely frustrating for both of us. While neither of us has changed our opinions I do now see that I have been making the situation worse for him in some ways and hopefully I will be able to find a way to stop doing that.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-41362137464476477172015-02-01T13:14:26.260-05:002015-02-01T13:14:26.260-05:00Thanks Fiona, you are absolutely right, roller coa...Thanks Fiona, you are absolutely right, roller coasters do truly suck at the bottom and I'm not a big fan of roller coasters to begin with. Though painful to write, these last few posts have helped me realize a few things about the situation we are dealing with and hopefully that understanding will help us get to a better place.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-34420263191110819032015-02-01T13:11:31.494-05:002015-02-01T13:11:31.494-05:00I've come to understand that things are not ov...I've come to understand that things are not over for us, that he was just speaking from a place of anger and frustration. We have been dealing with an incredibly difficult situation for a couple years now and though we don't approach this situation with the same life philosophies (which cause resentment and anger for both of us) we do both want the same outcome. I am going to try very hard to do what I can to alleviate some of his frustration and hopefully he will do the same for me. faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-54105264129762020602015-02-01T13:07:56.304-05:002015-02-01T13:07:56.304-05:00Thanks for leaving such a positive comment abby. I...Thanks for leaving such a positive comment abby. I have come to realize and understand why he is doing the things he is and that even though I don't like the situation there are some things I can do differently to help him. At least I hope I can.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-53155239033664180352015-02-01T13:05:17.111-05:002015-02-01T13:05:17.111-05:00HI Minelle, He is definitely lashing out and I hav...HI Minelle, He is definitely lashing out and I have come to realize that he is doing it from a place of frustration. We have been living with a very difficult situation for a couple years now, with no end in sight. The fact that he could change the situation, yet chooses not to, is something I have a hard time accepting. I am just now beginning to realize what is really going on with him and why he won't do anything to change the situation. It is still hard to accept, but understanding it better is helping some.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-83764831363702829812015-01-30T12:42:08.879-05:002015-01-30T12:42:08.879-05:00Your story is still being written. I know that'...Your story is still being written. I know that's not much to hold onto, but it's something. There is still light.<br /><br />More hugs Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07931554793023459482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-10368849247347274392015-01-30T11:26:02.068-05:002015-01-30T11:26:02.068-05:00Hi Faerie, I am so sorry about your current confus...Hi Faerie, I am so sorry about your current confusion and I am with Minelle and Abby too, your fairy tale is still in the making. You have been through such a lot together and this alone must have some some meaning for MM too. I wish so much that you could sit down and talk, I mean really talk, without hurt and instead trying to look for a way through this, together. I simply hope that all of this works out in a good way. Sending positive thoughts.<br /><br />hugs<br /><br />Nina<br />stay at home momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03569748294962803429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-29139797462667035252015-01-30T09:42:04.087-05:002015-01-30T09:42:04.087-05:00All those here share my same thoughts. Love, stre...All those here share my same thoughts. Love, strength, courage...you have all that and we are sending you MORE and more of it so that you know you are not alone. <br />XOXO PearlPearl Necklacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11455120796148571047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-74533147877025095652015-01-30T04:04:49.895-05:002015-01-30T04:04:49.895-05:00I'm so sorry Faerie. I agree with Abby and M...I'm so sorry Faerie. I agree with Abby and Minelle. You two have been through so much together and I hope your story is still unfolding. Sending positive thoughts and prayers.<br /><br />((Hugs ))<br />Roz Rozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-84255592349718226282015-01-30T02:58:28.674-05:002015-01-30T02:58:28.674-05:00Oh Faerie, I am not sure there is anything any of ...Oh Faerie, I am not sure there is anything any of us can say that will really help but I do agree with Sunny, if it is over there must be something better out there for you. Lots of sympathy<br />Jan,xxan English Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00696976759167193635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-7293001027142904952015-01-29T23:22:12.492-05:002015-01-29T23:22:12.492-05:00Remember, you have overcome so much and you are a ...Remember, you have overcome so much and you are a strong self reliant woman even if you don't feel that way right now. You will find that fairy tale, the rainbow, that light at the end of the tunnel. Just take one step as a time. And many, many hugs.<br /><br />FD Florida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-32433501625152179932015-01-29T21:41:56.222-05:002015-01-29T21:41:56.222-05:00I don't think it's the end by a long shot ...I don't think it's the end by a long shot - but do you both need a step back. I'm not sure he realizes what he is in danger of losing. I am NOT suggesting either of you leave or anything drastic like that, but I'm wondering if you are still taking care of everything and everyone through this hard time? Do what is best for you, please. I have a feeling you have always been at the bottom of your list and without meaning to it could have rubbed off on others who sometimes put you at the bottom too. You are loved, by us out here and by your family - even if they are too angry, stressed, whatever to realize it.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-9669116312891357162015-01-29T21:27:08.685-05:002015-01-29T21:27:08.685-05:00I agree with Abby and Minelle also Faerie. You an...I agree with Abby and Minelle also Faerie. You and MM have been through so much and always done it together and I really have to wonder what is going on with him. Sending lots of prayers, healing energy and positive thoughts.<br /><br />Hugs and Blessings...<br />CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-51164565132693462122015-01-29T21:15:46.015-05:002015-01-29T21:15:46.015-05:00The roller coasters truly suck at the bottom. fae...The roller coasters truly suck at the bottom. faerie,, I am glad that you are in a better place than when the story began...but hope and pray for a happier ending. Many hugs and positive thoughts, dear faerie. <br /><br />hugs,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.com