tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post8570497277845310906..comments2024-03-04T22:23:29.046-05:00Comments on faerie learns to fly: Uncomfortably NumbFaerie Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10815932181165053031noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-75660784887990178302013-08-05T09:47:47.261-04:002013-08-05T09:47:47.261-04:00Thanks Terpsichore, it hasn't happened yet :(Thanks Terpsichore, it hasn't happened yet :(faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-2516466648771590652013-08-03T15:10:08.428-04:002013-08-03T15:10:08.428-04:00Sending love and hugs. I truly hope you find some...Sending love and hugs. I truly hope you find some privacy soon to allow yourself to let go for a moment and escape into another world. Thinking of you... Terpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-46892910663642652042013-08-03T10:39:19.710-04:002013-08-03T10:39:19.710-04:00Thank you Sarah, I sincerely hope your blessings c...Thank you Sarah, I sincerely hope your blessings come true, and soon. faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-80267352848508464962013-08-03T10:38:15.447-04:002013-08-03T10:38:15.447-04:00I'm so happy things went well with your brothe...I'm so happy things went well with your brother. I never imagined bury my baby brother, at just 39, would be something I had to do. It still seems like a very bad dream I can't wake up from.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-43202570858473558002013-08-03T10:36:51.948-04:002013-08-03T10:36:51.948-04:00I'm so glad you can relate. It seems a bit sil...I'm so glad you can relate. It seems a bit silly to think that being faced with this amount of grief can be helped through a spanking, but that has been a wonderful stress relief for me in the past. It can, at the very least, provide a bit of time where I can escape from the painful reality of his loss. I really need that right now.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-61173269917069081972013-08-03T10:34:01.507-04:002013-08-03T10:34:01.507-04:00Thank you Meg, I know alone time with Musicman won...Thank you Meg, I know alone time with Musicman won't make the grief go away, but a short respite from it is possible and would really help me continue to deal with the loss.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-5321719068711363842013-08-03T10:32:22.864-04:002013-08-03T10:32:22.864-04:00Thank you Fiona, that is quite a lovely wish and I...Thank you Fiona, that is quite a lovely wish and I appreciate all the support.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-27383017744151516462013-08-03T10:31:26.547-04:002013-08-03T10:31:26.547-04:00Thank you FD, this definitely ranks as one of the ...Thank you FD, this definitely ranks as one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Unfortunately, at this point, there is nothing more for me to do but grieve. faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-85124335358077421812013-08-03T10:26:53.764-04:002013-08-03T10:26:53.764-04:00Thanks Angel, when I have some time I will be by t...Thanks Angel, when I have some time I will be by to check out your new blog :)<br />faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-11954355446338903112013-08-03T10:26:10.763-04:002013-08-03T10:26:10.763-04:00Thank you Minelle, just being able to get it out h...Thank you Minelle, just being able to get it out here helps some. The support of friends is very much appreciated. <br /><br />I don't know what we will do about the lack of privacy, but something has to give soon or I may have a total melt down. That would not be a good thing.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-15390621239305493892013-08-03T10:24:10.991-04:002013-08-03T10:24:10.991-04:00Thank you abby, I'm working on a plan for some...Thank you abby, I'm working on a plan for some alone time. It won't make things all better, but even a few moments of mindless bliss would help some.<br /><br />Yes, my daughter is living with us and has no immediate plans to move out. Having the baby here will definitely help. If I can't have any spanking therapy, cuddle therapy here I come.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-79655980124160392232013-08-03T10:21:29.985-04:002013-08-03T10:21:29.985-04:00Thanks lil, unfortunately I have experienced this ...Thanks lil, unfortunately I have experienced this kind of loss before and know that it will get better. Past experience did not make this time any easier though. It just really sucks right now, and not being able to connect well with Musicman isn't helping the situation.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-10405558931191742862013-08-03T10:19:28.984-04:002013-08-03T10:19:28.984-04:00Thanks PK, I do know things will get better, I jus...Thanks PK, I do know things will get better, I just can't seem to shake the numbness that engulfs me right now. Hopefully soon we will have the opportunity to do something about that.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-28303711604556093012013-08-02T19:12:18.298-04:002013-08-02T19:12:18.298-04:00I a, so sorry for your loss. May you and your fami...I a, so sorry for your loss. May you and your family be blessed with comfort, strength and peace of mind during this difficult time. <br />And may you, Faerie, be blessed with a spanking. <br />HugsSarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04798113123590131798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-71193377339576822832013-08-02T07:05:01.555-04:002013-08-02T07:05:01.555-04:00Faerie, I'm so sorry about your deep loss. I h...Faerie, I'm so sorry about your deep loss. I have known loss, but not of a sibling. Both my brothers have had some scarey health issues recently. My little brother had a CT scan yesterday, which fortunately was clear. My siblings and I are all in our 50s now. I can't immagine what it would feel like to lose them. I am praying that God will help you and all those who love him, get through the pain and loss. I pray that God will give you all that you need, including the time you need with Musicman. Love and prayers, -Belle L.Belle Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10222752720181960143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-57079370691669668232013-08-02T06:03:01.192-04:002013-08-02T06:03:01.192-04:00Dear Faerie, i'm so sorry for the loss of your...Dear Faerie, i'm so sorry for the loss of your brother. Hoping you get some alone time with Musicman soon! [i can so relate to that need.}<br />sophiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-85095670266774512102013-08-01T21:38:38.405-04:002013-08-01T21:38:38.405-04:00Faerie,
I'm so sorry to hear the news about yo...Faerie,<br />I'm so sorry to hear the news about your brother. May your memories of good times with him give you some comfort. I hope that you and Musicman get some time alone very soon. <br />Take care,<br />MegMeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03993692253695944431noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-72944474570656023242013-08-01T21:21:50.143-04:002013-08-01T21:21:50.143-04:00Faerie,
I wish you peace to bring comfort, courag...Faerie,<br /><br />I wish you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.<br /><br />HUGS,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-59480340686565912532013-08-01T20:16:36.271-04:002013-08-01T20:16:36.271-04:00All I can say I am sorry about the loss of your br...All I can say I am sorry about the loss of your brother. And give yourself time to grieve. All your blogger friends are wishing you the best.<br /><br />FD Florida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-17197234066759693742013-08-01T19:57:05.436-04:002013-08-01T19:57:05.436-04:00Hugs hon am so sorry you lost your brother. I hope...Hugs hon am so sorry you lost your brother. I hope you get to feeling better soon. Trazure now at justhissubwife.blogspot.comTiffanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04805071633671355739noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-15880886557714996772013-08-01T17:23:00.610-04:002013-08-01T17:23:00.610-04:00I am so very sorry to hear about your brother. The...I am so very sorry to hear about your brother. There isn't anything I can say that will make it better. I wish I had words of wisdom or comfort to give you some peace. I will keep you all in my thoughts.<br />I hear you on the privacy. Why not go rent a room if you cannot get the kids to leave for a while? It would help I am sure.Minielle Labraunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16206283897752166320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-38272080152852456572013-08-01T14:56:51.397-04:002013-08-01T14:56:51.397-04:00I am so sorry to hear about your brother. Grief is...I am so sorry to hear about your brother. Grief is a process, it will take time. I second PK's suggestion...do it before that babe gets here. I bet having that baby around...will they be staying with you..will be an unexpected blessing.<br />hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208861579579989418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-49602721296657896362013-08-01T12:27:33.419-04:002013-08-01T12:27:33.419-04:00Oh faerie, I am truly sorry for your loss.
I thin...Oh faerie, I am truly sorry for your loss.<br /><br />I think PK's idea about the kids was great. It's worth a try, right?<br /><br />I if you ever wanna chat, you know how to reach me.<br /><br />It won't all be better tomorrow, but it will get better.<br />Hugs.Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-36138517416799571932013-08-01T11:03:50.192-04:002013-08-01T11:03:50.192-04:00Faerie,
I'm so very sorry about your brother. ...Faerie,<br />I'm so very sorry about your brother. There are no real word I can say to make it better. I'm glad your brother is not suffering any longer, and i wish I could say the same for you and all your family. At our age, we know things will get better, but that doesn't help at the moment.<br /><br />Your kids know all you've been going through. Maybe you could just tell them you need some time alone to talk and maybe pay for them to go to dinner and a movie. I think it would be worth it. The take the phone off the hook and enjoy the time.<br /><br />I'm thinking of you. I don't want to give you more to do, but please post when you can. You know we care.<br /><br />PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.com