tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post8253258297258856725..comments2024-03-04T22:23:29.046-05:00Comments on faerie learns to fly: Tap, Tap, TappingFaerie Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10815932181165053031noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-38381678225243217902014-07-30T14:22:03.396-04:002014-07-30T14:22:03.396-04:00This situation has been incredibly hard to deal wi...This situation has been incredibly hard to deal with, watching your kids be hurt and knowing there is nothing I can do about it is so frustrating.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-28100387788957000292014-07-27T10:32:54.225-04:002014-07-27T10:32:54.225-04:00Such a difficult situation to be in. I am sorry. ...Such a difficult situation to be in. I am sorry. And yes, nobody but nobody can mess with a mother...then the calmest and most gentle can become ferocious lions willing to do anything to protect their young... Terpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-79910600272960611872014-07-24T11:15:33.221-04:002014-07-24T11:15:33.221-04:00Exactly, don't mess with mothers and yes he wi...Exactly, don't mess with mothers and yes he will learn that soon enough. faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-72664552107040765912014-07-24T11:13:59.626-04:002014-07-24T11:13:59.626-04:00I know my daughter was extremely upset, but so was...I know my daughter was extremely upset, but so was I. I find his behavior totally unacceptable and unforgivable. I don't care what the fight was about, you don't just run away and abandon your child and stress out her Mom.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-39425527490297955762014-07-24T11:12:19.723-04:002014-07-24T11:12:19.723-04:00Thanks lil, in my heart I know this is not a good ...Thanks lil, in my heart I know this is not a good situation or relationship for my daughter, but she doesn't see it that way, yet. He needs to step up, or get the heck out. But that's just my opinion, which means very little to her.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-33600936980017168552014-07-24T11:10:43.472-04:002014-07-24T11:10:43.472-04:00That is the same advice I gave my daughter and I a...That is the same advice I gave my daughter and I assured her that if she wanted to move on we would help her as much we can. I know it would be difficult with the baby, but I also believe that is more reason not to put up with this kind of behavior. She definitely should not be subjected to that kind of stress and negativity in her very young life.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-34882935654875182022014-07-24T11:07:46.552-04:002014-07-24T11:07:46.552-04:00Thanks Cat, if it weren't for Musicman these k...Thanks Cat, if it weren't for Musicman these kids wouldn't exist. I went into our marriage not ever wanting kids, it was him and the love he gave me that made me want HIS kids. And yes, If someone messes with them, I will hurt them...badly.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-7801634349056411182014-07-24T11:03:02.426-04:002014-07-24T11:03:02.426-04:00Musicman is perfect for me, I guess I'll keep ...Musicman is perfect for me, I guess I'll keep him, lol. I'm usually a calm person too, though I am also very intense, if that makes any sense. I totally agree with not leaving enough left to bury if someone messes with your kids, I'd definitely do the same.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-66281281273059874362014-07-24T10:59:29.218-04:002014-07-24T10:59:29.218-04:00Thanks, I think we have a pretty great relationshi...Thanks, I think we have a pretty great relationship, but we've been together a long time and have put a lot of work into making it that way.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-89538126507187777612014-07-24T10:58:29.937-04:002014-07-24T10:58:29.937-04:00I used to think if I just survived the teenage yea...I used to think if I just survived the teenage years everything would be fine. Wow was I wrong. faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-69718521354826777292014-07-21T09:37:16.286-04:002014-07-21T09:37:16.286-04:00Don't mess with mothers - your grand's fat...Don't mess with mothers - your grand's father is about to find out just how true that statement is. <br /><br />Happy that you and MM were able to find some good amongst the angst.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-47045221050013008742014-07-21T07:47:08.385-04:002014-07-21T07:47:08.385-04:00Hi Faerie, oh gosh such a difficult situation. I&#...Hi Faerie, oh gosh such a difficult situation. I'm glad MM was able to help you feel better. I hope your daughter works things.<br /><br />Hugs<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-58412166172362120242014-07-20T22:00:38.083-04:002014-07-20T22:00:38.083-04:00Oh faerie, what a difficult position to be in.
I h...Oh faerie, what a difficult position to be in.<br />I hope she gets everything figured out soon for the benefit of your family.<br /><br />P.S good to see you posting again!Stormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12613795542678253943noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-62629826673225123282014-07-20T20:51:52.036-04:002014-07-20T20:51:52.036-04:00So glad that you two were able to salvage the time...So glad that you two were able to salvage the time you had together. <br /><br />I understand how hard it is to watch a daughter go through that. My oldest tried to hide that her and her boyfriend were having troubles but as he became more controlling, the fights got worse until there was no hiding it. Her dad and I are like you and musicman. We have long since stopped fighting in our relationship. <br /><br />The only advice I gave her was that it shouldn't be that hard to get along and if it is...she needed to decide what she was willing to live with. I also told her that no one could tell her what to do but that she would know when it was time to end it. It was a slow painful process for us all but eventually she was able to walk away. Of course, with a baby involved, I can certainly appreciate that it makes that choice even more difficult.. <br /><br />Hugs to you alllittle girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17239564937960323449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-64329680212718503072014-07-20T19:48:50.975-04:002014-07-20T19:48:50.975-04:00Hey Faerie...happy you have MM there to help you. ...Hey Faerie...happy you have MM there to help you. I do know how you feel...I'm easy going until someone hurt my family or friends...then I will hurt them...badly! Sending lots of prayers and positive energy. <br /><br />Hugs and Blessings...<br />CatCathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14266606975978680188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-73707961440211317112014-07-20T18:42:22.129-04:002014-07-20T18:42:22.129-04:00Musicman is perfect for you. Now me, I'm the c...Musicman is perfect for you. Now me, I'm the calm type. Don't get mad often, I'm laid back and understanding. But if some SOB hurts my daughter, there may not be enough left to bury.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-39822206309172893782014-07-20T16:42:02.756-04:002014-07-20T16:42:02.756-04:00I love the way your Musicman helped you recollect ...I love the way your Musicman helped you recollect and feel better. Still a newer reader here, but it sounds like you guys have such a great relationship. Very much enjoying your posts. <br /><br />xx bratAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05911164749484261165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-66576228436529875332014-07-20T15:51:37.871-04:002014-07-20T15:51:37.871-04:00I have an adult child living at home....not marrie... I have an adult child living at home....not married.....but it is so hard to bite my tongue at times. Glad Musicman recognized the tapping foot syndrome and 'corrected' it.<br />hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15842526901481062563noreply@blogger.com