tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post6006560650206364527..comments2024-03-04T22:23:29.046-05:00Comments on faerie learns to fly: Triggers and MemoriesFaerie Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10815932181165053031noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-11626690675067711872012-07-09T09:23:10.459-04:002012-07-09T09:23:10.459-04:00I'm glad I remembered it.I'm glad I remembered it.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-2333445157964223772012-07-08T22:55:34.480-04:002012-07-08T22:55:34.480-04:00This is so, so beautiful.This is so, so beautiful.Coninahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12267844904414770524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-36497623075665551812012-07-08T11:07:50.711-04:002012-07-08T11:07:50.711-04:00Your welcome :)Your welcome :)faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-6570535672877880892012-07-08T11:07:15.014-04:002012-07-08T11:07:15.014-04:00I don't usually think about helping others wit...I don't usually think about helping others with my posts. This time, with it being such a positive experience, I did think about it. I hope it does help someone, or at least give them hope of better things.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-52436594271517021932012-07-08T11:05:44.925-04:002012-07-08T11:05:44.925-04:00Thanks aisha, it was an overwhelmingly wonderful s...Thanks aisha, it was an overwhelmingly wonderful surprise for me to find a pleasant memory poking through. That is often not the case.<br /><br />I have always been in awe of the fact that my husband seemed to know exactly what to do to help me. Even when I couldn't remember what he did. How does anyone know what to do in those instances?faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-41866130090276486562012-07-07T21:14:48.632-04:002012-07-07T21:14:48.632-04:00A lovely, beautiful, awe-inspiring post, faerie. ...A lovely, beautiful, awe-inspiring post, faerie. Thank you.<br /><br />Stay SINful<br />Mr. APAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-16914175268134666832012-07-07T17:21:41.149-04:002012-07-07T17:21:41.149-04:00The great thing is that your post helps others who...The great thing is that your post helps others who have had to deal with similar issues. It is good that you are able to share your thoughts and experiences and that things are going well for you.<br /><br />FDFlorida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-43887190145175259132012-07-07T15:31:34.833-04:002012-07-07T15:31:34.833-04:00Beautiful post, faerie. I've been amazed and ...Beautiful post, faerie. I've been amazed and delighted at the way some Dom's are able to help their partner through this healing journey. <br /><br />I admire the strength it took to choose to let this memory emerge, not knowing what feelings it would carry. I'm glad these were such pleasant ones to reclaim. :-)<br /><br />Namaste.<br /><br />aishaaishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15270362131147401079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-82187844263987531962012-07-07T13:23:28.772-04:002012-07-07T13:23:28.772-04:00Until now I was never able remember any detail fro...Until now I was never able remember any detail from those events, and I always wondered what happened. It wasn't something that we talked about much aftwerwards, at least not that I remember. I just have always been in awe of what ever he did during them, cause I always survived them and eventually they did stop. <br /><br />I never really think much about helping someone when I post, I do it because it helps me. Just today though, I noticed a search term for "flashbacks during intimacy." Maybe this did help them :)faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-52996414041036354522012-07-07T13:18:31.005-04:002012-07-07T13:18:31.005-04:00Welcome P, and thank you. As I said above, I almos...Welcome P, and thank you. As I said above, I almost didn't post it, but it had such a happy ending that I did. <br /><br />I hope you find a man some day that is just as perfect for you as Musicman is for me :)faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-34512082750226158972012-07-07T13:15:58.966-04:002012-07-07T13:15:58.966-04:00I'm so sorry I made you cry. I almost didn'...I'm so sorry I made you cry. I almost didn't post it after I finished writing it. For once though the memory that came back has a happy ending. That's why I posted it.<br /><br />I accepted a long time ago that there will always be triggers, that, I can't control. It's how we handle them, that, we have the ability to control. For me, that is always changing and evolving. <br /><br />I'm sorry to hear you have similar experiences, but I'm very glad to hear that your Hubby helps you too. Musicman has been the key for me in making as much progress as I have :Dfaerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-17469704609213676032012-07-07T13:07:07.665-04:002012-07-07T13:07:07.665-04:00Yes, we are very lucky, thanks :)Yes, we are very lucky, thanks :)faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-75718446789330473542012-07-07T13:06:15.895-04:002012-07-07T13:06:15.895-04:00I had literally forgotten all the details, good an...I had literally forgotten all the details, good and bad of those incidents. I am very happy that I am remembering this one. It makes me smile :Dfaerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-70892922908457530282012-07-07T13:05:11.049-04:002012-07-07T13:05:11.049-04:00As soon as I saw that posting on FB, literally min...As soon as I saw that posting on FB, literally minutes after I posted here, I knew I had to add it. So apropos!!!!faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-49762098800922167462012-07-07T13:03:46.289-04:002012-07-07T13:03:46.289-04:00We are, heeheehee :DWe are, heeheehee :Dfaerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-43336810598946290822012-07-07T13:03:10.370-04:002012-07-07T13:03:10.370-04:00He does make a very good knight in shining armor t...He does make a very good knight in shining armor to rescue the damsel in distress, lol. <br /><br />I'll be sure and check out your post soon.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-69651716088617239172012-07-07T13:01:23.158-04:002012-07-07T13:01:23.158-04:00Yes, it is, this time I'm glad the memory came...Yes, it is, this time I'm glad the memory came back. That isn't usually the case :)faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-71408072954906053752012-07-07T08:05:47.100-04:002012-07-07T08:05:47.100-04:00He really is amazing! the natural instinct that he...He really is amazing! the natural instinct that helps him key into your needs. You are lucky. His natural responses may help another partner be as sensitive to their partners needs!<br />MinelleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-17758715138971996112012-07-07T07:01:49.192-04:002012-07-07T07:01:49.192-04:00BTW I linked you in this post.<a href="fondles.blogspot.com/2012/07/lovely-blog-award.html" rel="nofollow">BTW I linked you in this post.</a>Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-68612775188145598522012-07-07T05:37:43.412-04:002012-07-07T05:37:43.412-04:00I love this post. I just can not stop crying. so b...I love this post. I just can not stop crying. so beautiful, so honest, so pure. I pray everyday that I find a man like your's. <br /><br />love<br /><br />PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-38182038984984706702012-07-06T23:17:43.809-04:002012-07-06T23:17:43.809-04:00Your post has me crying hon. I've been in that...Your post has me crying hon. I've been in that same spot and am lucky as you are to have someone to bring me back to a safe spot. *hugs* I'm glad that you are working through that and feeling stronger. I haven't erased the flashbacks but believe or not since I started ttwd I've noticed a HUGE improvement on what used to trigger me. Thank you for posting this. It gives me hope that I will get there too. (Just another reason why I love your blog - and happy that you and music man found each other)Adaline Rainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13466581313147777703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-87402342190587560202012-07-06T23:05:31.381-04:002012-07-06T23:05:31.381-04:00It takes a special man to guide you through the pa...It takes a special man to guide you through the pain and bring you out safely on the other side. And it must have taken a wonderful woman to attract such a man. You two are very lucky.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />PKPKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-66206014617064340102012-07-06T20:03:58.206-04:002012-07-06T20:03:58.206-04:00I have some memories I try to avoid thinking about...I have some memories I try to avoid thinking about, but when DH and I first started dating, I would remember in the middle of lovemaking, and wouldn't be able to get out of it. He didn't know what to do either, but it sounds like musikman got your number, and knows how to take away your thoughts to something much more pleasant. :DJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08484811892132134437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-36509449980964270542012-07-06T18:39:40.207-04:002012-07-06T18:39:40.207-04:00What a guy huh :) That fb post speaks loudly too d...What a guy huh :) That fb post speaks loudly too doesn't it. You and musicman have made/are making lots and lots of wonderful memories :)<br /><br />Dee xDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04850836843301245812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-32868124762463218842012-07-06T16:25:44.916-04:002012-07-06T16:25:44.916-04:00Nice Facebook posting that you shared and so true....Nice Facebook posting that you shared and so true. May you and Musicman make some wonderful NEW memories over the weekend! You can be strong and lean on him, too.SNPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06002781182375655139noreply@blogger.com