tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post4249028490635187023..comments2024-03-04T22:23:29.046-05:00Comments on faerie learns to fly: Reshaping NormalFaerie Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10815932181165053031noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-50220677697870527072013-08-29T13:57:01.968-04:002013-08-29T13:57:01.968-04:00Yeah, getting there seems to be the problem at the...Yeah, getting there seems to be the problem at the moment, but I am trying. It's nice to hear from you, hope everything is going well with you.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-46120243379952211122013-08-29T13:55:54.244-04:002013-08-29T13:55:54.244-04:00I do work hard to live in the moment, but I often ...I do work hard to live in the moment, but I often fail at it. Perhaps that is another part of the lesson I can take from this.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-22574773789096009652013-08-29T13:53:46.487-04:002013-08-29T13:53:46.487-04:00I've never been a very patient woman, maybe th...I've never been a very patient woman, maybe that's part of the lesson I need to learn from this situation.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-36385109519540650212013-08-29T13:52:14.784-04:002013-08-29T13:52:14.784-04:00Thank you Belle, I appreciate the prayers and the ...Thank you Belle, I appreciate the prayers and the support.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-41889223724623276132013-08-29T13:51:11.878-04:002013-08-29T13:51:11.878-04:00Thanks Sunnygirl, I know you speak with the wisdom...Thanks Sunnygirl, I know you speak with the wisdom of experience. I am finally trying to take some forward steps and move on with my life. Having this place to vent and work through everything helps immensely. The support of friends like you is priceless.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-17970028701653944662013-08-29T13:47:31.090-04:002013-08-29T13:47:31.090-04:00Thank you for sharing your story with me. I do kno...Thank you for sharing your story with me. I do know I am not the only one who has experienced loss and I truly appreciate the support as I work through this very difficult time.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-65456575540694361902013-08-29T04:43:27.357-04:002013-08-29T04:43:27.357-04:00I'm so sorry about your brother faerie. It may...I'm so sorry about your brother faerie. It may be a cliche but I know that you know that time really is a great healer. It's just getting there eh. ((Hugs))<br /><br />Dee xDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04850836843301245812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-74234715880835431352013-08-27T22:08:07.106-04:002013-08-27T22:08:07.106-04:00Lean on him, faerie, he won't let you fall. No...Lean on him, faerie, he won't let you fall. None of us are guaranteed even the next five minutes, but we have to make the most of the now. That's hard for me, too. Daddy is forever trying to keep me in the moment. Tell Musicman you need an anchor to the now. Hugs and wishes for peace.<br /><br /><3<br />cdAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-56530357416489221562013-08-25T08:01:07.051-04:002013-08-25T08:01:07.051-04:00Time may help but I know time may seem too long to...Time may help but I know time may seem too long to wait sometimes. Your best friend knows you are there for her. Thinking of you. Sending love and hugs. Terpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-55158700870859266172013-08-25T05:59:38.076-04:002013-08-25T05:59:38.076-04:00I'm praying for you and your sister-in-law, an...I'm praying for you and your sister-in-law, and all who loved your brother. I'm so sorry for your loss. May God give the comfort and peace that y'all need. -Belle L.Belle Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10222752720181960143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-43219139196769129422013-08-24T11:17:29.891-04:002013-08-24T11:17:29.891-04:00You will get through this Faerie and so will your ...You will get through this Faerie and so will your SIL. Time does help, just do it one day at a time and in the blink of an eye a year has passed. Losing someone you love is hard and as you said there will be a new normal, just love yourself and forgive yourself enough to process the change and accept What Is not What Was.<br /><br />HugsAimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-92060554431116259172013-08-23T21:11:29.877-04:002013-08-23T21:11:29.877-04:00Faerie- I am sorry for your loss and continued gr...Faerie- I am sorry for your loss and continued grief. It sounds like although you are having difficulty thinking what to do and say to your SIL, just you being there to hold her hand or listen is what she needs more than anything. I lost my Best Friend going on 2 years now next week. We were BF's for 50 years and closer than most sisters. I still feel out of place and most days on the verge of tears. But I go on , as she would want me to and try to honor her memory the best way I can, every single day. Those of us left behind have it so hard sometimes. Just know that you and your SIL are not alone- There will be a new normal one day and you have to take the time to grieve. Hopefully sharing in the wonderful memories of your brother helps in some way.<br /><br />Sending hugs and prayers.<br /><br />~faithfulfaithfulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00302360277876603758noreply@blogger.com