tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post1498071030556320310..comments2024-03-04T22:23:29.046-05:00Comments on faerie learns to fly: At a LossFaerie Wingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10815932181165053031noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-65324546675164186652013-11-10T13:16:14.868-05:002013-11-10T13:16:14.868-05:00I understand exactly that dark place and over powe...I understand exactly that dark place and over powering sensation of loss. It's awful. We are doing our best to hold on and to make that connection again.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-29965637512934213342013-11-09T19:52:56.862-05:002013-11-09T19:52:56.862-05:00I am sorry that really sucks. That intimate connec...I am sorry that really sucks. That intimate connection is so important. When DH doesn't get that sexual connection with me, he will start to drift, going into dark places in his mind, feeling an overpowering sensation of loss. So I get it. <br />Try to remind each other that when times permits you will get there again, hold on.Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08484811892132134437noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-87812475346729071692013-11-09T13:17:04.414-05:002013-11-09T13:17:04.414-05:00I would LOVE to escape some where fun with him. Ac...I would LOVE to escape some where fun with him. Actually, anywhere private would be fine with me, just not in the cards right now. I'll keep trying, I have too, cause I'm not happy with where we are right now.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-84310774523962128002013-11-09T13:15:14.901-05:002013-11-09T13:15:14.901-05:00Thanks Dee, I do miss our chats, life has just bee...Thanks Dee, I do miss our chats, life has just been so hectic. He reads every post I write, so no need to send an email. If something doesn't give soon though, you may want to get the guest room ready, cause I'm running away, lol.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-90501817047412040832013-11-09T13:13:31.664-05:002013-11-09T13:13:31.664-05:00All great advice chickadee, I'm just too inpat...All great advice chickadee, I'm just too inpatient to wait. I've always felt I could face anything, deal with anything, as long as I did it with him by my side. Not having that connection right now, just seems to make all the difficult things we've been dealing with that much more difficult.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-35750043216818132172013-11-09T13:10:27.246-05:002013-11-09T13:10:27.246-05:00We do seem to be experiencing some of the same thi...We do seem to be experiencing some of the same things don't we? Personally, I find it extremely hard knowing how great it could be, to accept what is going on now. I sincerely hope we both find our way back to a good place soon.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-22425468193249071852013-11-09T13:08:20.664-05:002013-11-09T13:08:20.664-05:00He does read here. There is just so much going on ...He does read here. There is just so much going on all the time, and privacy of any kind seems to be non existent right now. Honestly, I've been ready to run away for quite awhile now. If only I could convince Musicman to come with me.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-43298239219241361622013-11-09T13:05:27.939-05:002013-11-09T13:05:27.939-05:00That's a thought. Maybe if we are too loud the...That's a thought. Maybe if we are too loud they will leave? Heeheehee, worth a try I suppose.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-77787356365784985392013-11-09T13:04:17.627-05:002013-11-09T13:04:17.627-05:00Thanks Hs, I will keep trying to make that connect...Thanks Hs, I will keep trying to make that connection with him. I have to, I can't live without it.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-70660423918889319812013-11-09T13:03:24.028-05:002013-11-09T13:03:24.028-05:00This year has definitely been very challenging for...This year has definitely been very challenging for us. I keep trying to remind myself of that when I become inpatient with the way things are going. Rarely helps, but I will keep trying.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-45578857138262311832013-11-09T13:01:16.037-05:002013-11-09T13:01:16.037-05:00More that just sex...makes total sense to me. Late...More that just sex...makes total sense to me. Lately, the times we have come together, something has felt a bit off, almost mechanical maybe. We'll keep trying and I'm sure at some point it will all work itself out. faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-22754040011509010442013-11-09T12:59:08.280-05:002013-11-09T12:59:08.280-05:00Hi Roz :) You're right, this feeling is no fun...Hi Roz :) You're right, this feeling is no fun. I should talk to him, but he doesn't much care to talk about these kinds of things. However, he does read every post I write, so he will know.faerie wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09749617812384896845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-17140563557794572152013-11-08T13:52:28.565-05:002013-11-08T13:52:28.565-05:00keep reaching, keep trying, keep hoping for opport...keep reaching, keep trying, keep hoping for opportunities for intimacy, and if those opportunities don't seem to arrive on their own...then grab them...easier said than done...I know...but I am cheering for you and hoping with you...may you find the connection you both need soon. Wish you could both escape somewhere fun together for a while... HugsTerpsichorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13704408254742966076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-15669861755951259842013-11-08T07:11:29.594-05:002013-11-08T07:11:29.594-05:00The longer you leave it, the harder it's gonna...The longer you leave it, the harder it's gonna be. Send him this email! <br />You know how to reach me if you want a blether.<br /><br />Dee xDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04850836843301245812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-44181943216649331162013-11-07T22:20:11.635-05:002013-11-07T22:20:11.635-05:00hugs faerie! There's been so much happening i...hugs faerie! There's been so much happening it's gonna take time. Wanting it and recognizing that you want it are big steps in themselves. Hang in there and keep reaching towards him not away.ashebridgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08573787332690062041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-91830474924139143102013-11-07T21:44:55.246-05:002013-11-07T21:44:55.246-05:00Oh faerie...are we on parallel paths, or what? Si...Oh faerie...are we on parallel paths, or what? Sir and I have always been those people. Sex has always been woven into every stitch of our relationship. Passion has always been high. Until...until recently when it all went away. I want it all back...I think he does too..we just can't manage to close the deal with any consistency. <br /><br />I hope we can both find the right track back to our D/s spanko lives!<br /><br />hugs to you dear faerie,<br />fionaSirQsmlbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17862547894051224264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-28691858844346567352013-11-07T21:13:41.456-05:002013-11-07T21:13:41.456-05:00Good luck in finding a way to connect with him aga...Good luck in finding a way to connect with him again. It is unfortunate that it has come to this point. Does you read your blog? Maybe that would be a start to letting him know how you are feeling these days.<br /><br />FDFlorida Domhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08785387941624829985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-73595461755205463012013-11-07T09:56:51.859-05:002013-11-07T09:56:51.859-05:00Just keep the doors open. Actually, grab him, go ...Just keep the doors open. Actually, grab him, go upstairs to your bedroom, lock the door and everyone else be damned. Hugs to you.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-38092595210210126112013-11-07T07:25:07.674-05:002013-11-07T07:25:07.674-05:00wish i had something profound to say....hugs.....t...wish i had something profound to say....hugs.....the girlsve are right...keep reaching out.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-22846698113835979662013-11-07T06:41:03.578-05:002013-11-07T06:41:03.578-05:00You have been through a LOT in the last few months...You have been through a LOT in the last few months....keep reaching out. <br />Hugs abbyabbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208861579579989418noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-59790505030401403012013-11-07T05:51:28.009-05:002013-11-07T05:51:28.009-05:00We have always connected in very much the same way...We have always connected in very much the same way. When sex is absent it seems like everything else begins to break down. We've been in the same situation for the past month and a half. We are finally starting to have sex again and it's just now starting to feel like more than just sex...if that makes any sense. <br /><br />Just keep trying. Keep trying to connect in other ways as well. I hate that you're feeling this way and hope this start looking up soon<br /><br />hugs<br />pAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3260314684463137349.post-86628347059400720942013-11-07T03:08:30.914-05:002013-11-07T03:08:30.914-05:00Hi Faerie,
I just found your blog so wanted to sa...Hi Faerie,<br /><br />I just found your blog so wanted to say Hi. I'm so sorry you are feeling this way. Longing for that connection is no fun I know. Talk to him.<br /><br />(((Hugs)))<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.com